If parents are absent from their children's growth, children will encounter complete obstacles in their future family education. The growth of children is a very critical stage, not only in infancy, but also in primary and junior high schools. There is no doubt that children need to establish a sense of security in early childhood, so they need their parents' company, but in primary school and junior high school, children also need their parents' education and company.

First, the alienation of parent-child relationship If the parents are absent during the child's growth, the most important thing is that the relationship between the two will be very alienated. When two people finally get together, they will look at each other and don't know what to talk about, but for the relationship between people, parent-child relationship is the closest, but this scene is actually because parents are absent and children's growth makes them have no common language. Even parents-children are strangers, because they don't know each other and never really get along. For children, their growth stage already contains many golden periods, so parents should not miss them.

Second, children and parents cannot understand each other. When parents are not growing up, it is more difficult for them to understand each other. We always say that children should understand their parents' hard work and parents should also understand their children's pressure. In fact, if parents fail to accompany their children to grow up, or even absent, then this will not make progress in the future. If two people don't understand, it is easy to quarrel in the process of family education, and it will even get worse.

Inability to understand is the most basic. Over time, the gap between two people will get bigger and bigger, and it will become difficult to coexist from incomprehensible. Although it is a parent-child relationship, they are like strange individuals, and it is difficult for parents to intervene in educating their children.

Third, it is easy to create barriers that are difficult to eliminate. For children, it is difficult to make up for it in adulthood. This also means that when parents miss their children's growth and want to enter the threshold of family education again, they will be hindered. This kind of obstacle often comes from the child himself. He completely resists communication with his parents, and there will be an indelible gap between them. Perhaps for parents, they will think that these barriers will gradually disappear as the two get along, but for the growth of children, if the children are unwilling to accept it, then this gap will always exist.

Mainly because we don't know each other, it is difficult to take the first step. Some children even hate their parents. Sometimes parents need to be with their children, but they are not there, so let the children face it alone. He was forced to grow up, so at this time, a line of defense has been erected in his heart. Therefore, in order to avoid these situations, even if parents are busy, they should spend time on their children and participate in their education.