1, pay attention to learning mood.
The reason why I pay attention to children's emotions in the first place is because I think that only when children are happy at school will they like learning, and gradually they will have a hobby of learning and become good at learning. Three years ago, when I was teaching senior one, I asked my students to go back to their parents every day and tell them about their school life and their happiness and unhappiness. In this way, parents and children can form the habit of equal communication, and it is also convenient for parents to know their children's ideological status in time, which is conducive to the right medicine. After this frequent communication and habit formation, it will become easier to educate children. What I am most afraid of is that children don't tell anyone anything, parents don't know anything, and it's too late to regret it. Therefore, whenever a child comes back from school, parents can ask the child, "Are you happy at school today? What are you happy about? " . If he is unhappy, you should ask him why he is unhappy, and then enlighten the child ideologically to make him happy. If you need the teacher's help, you can communicate with him in time. You can also start with parents' questions, and it is best to develop the habit of children actively communicating with parents in the future.
2. Pay attention to your study partner.
Friends are the objects to talk to; Friends are the driving force of progress. Man is the animal most afraid of loneliness, and children need friends more, and they need friends who are better than him in some way. I didn't emphasize making friends with classmates with good academic performance. Because a person's comprehensive quality is multifaceted, not just in study. Whether a child's grades are good or not is not the only factor that brings him friends, but also involves personality, personality and other factors. So parents should teach their children how to make more good friends in new groups. Need to know how many partners your child has at school, and what are their learning, personality and behavior? And you can contact the parents of these partners, so that you will know more about your child's situation at school, even if the child accidentally lies, you will know soon; You can also learn from other parents a good way to educate your children. If your child has no partners, you should create opportunities for him to make more friends.
3. Pay attention to study habits.
Good study habits will benefit children for life. It takes at least 2 1 day to cultivate a good habit. Parents should pay attention to cultivating children's good study habits of reading, reading and writing; It is also necessary to develop behavioral habits such as neat writing, study concentration, eye hygiene, and work and rest habits. For example, keep reading for at least half an hour every day, read aloud and emotionally, keep your eyes one foot away from the book, hold the pen correctly, don't be absent-minded when studying, try not to use an eraser when writing, and help the family do some housework (sweeping the floor, wiping the table, serving bowls, etc.). ) every day.
4. Pay attention to the completion of homework.
Students finish school homework just like parents' work, so it is very important to develop good homework habits. It is suggested that children drink some water and eat some fruit as soon as they get home from school, and they will start to finish their homework. When you do your homework, you study alone at a special desk. Don't disturb him. You can have a rest every half hour of study 10 minute. When a child encounters a question that he doesn't understand, parents should never answer it immediately. Parents should wait until the homework is finished before helping him. He should not only form the habit of thinking, but also improve the efficiency of learning. If after a while, I ask, "How do you spell mom?" Then he asked, "Dad, how to do this problem?" In the future, children will be slow to write homework and will not finish it independently. However, many words in the upper part of the questions are unfamiliar, and parents can also read all the questions before their children do them. It is worth noting that some parents always feel that there is too little homework, or sometimes there is too little homework, so they give their children more homework, which makes some children feel that it is useless to write homework early, not as good as write slowly, and then develop the habit of homework in write slowly. Why not let the children relax when there is little homework? By the way, when I was at school, I watched TV 1 hour at most every day.
I know many parents don't have time to take care of their children, but I want to tell these parents that different children need different time to pay attention in a semester, a school year or even two years. Only when good habits are formed and everything is on the right track can we gradually let go.
Thinking: Many young parents shirk the responsibility of educating their children to their elders for various reasons. Regardless of the pros and cons of doing this, I just want to tell young parents that you have not paid attention to your children and have not communicated with them when they need you. In a blink of an eye, you will feel lost when your child grows up and no longer needs you. Not to mention the deep friendship between you.