After seeing this news, I think this father is terrible. Although it is the graveyard of one's own family, it is also the graveyard of one's grandfather, but it is a graveyard after all. After all, how could he have the heart to let his children stand alone on that mountain? Still barefoot, and worried about blocking the road at the intersection. I don't understand this parent.
If the child doesn't do his homework, he won't do it first. Why should children be forced to stand in front of Taigong grave? What do you want your children to think of you, yourself, homework and the future? This is not educating children, but forcing them to do things they don't want to do and forcing them to go astray.
Second, abnormal education is terrible. Although parents know that they are still worried about the safety of their children, they still wait at the intersection and call the police immediately after discovering that their children are missing. However, parents' behavior has seriously hurt children's self-esteem, hurt their mental health, and even worse, it will cause physical health. Imagine a person standing in front of a grave in the mountains, how terrible, dark, lonely and gloomy it is to stand there and think of it.
Barefoot at night, aren't you afraid of snakes and insects biting children? Aren't you afraid that the cold wind will freeze your child and catch a cold? Learning is important, but in the face of health and personal safety, learning is not important at all. You must ensure the personal safety and health of your children before you can talk about learning. What's the use of learning by pushing children into a fire pit?
When the child stands in front of Taigong's grave again, he will always remember the feeling that my father stood there alone that night to punish me. He will never forget the way his parents punished him for losing his temper; He will never forget the feeling of walking barefoot on the mountain road. Psychological injury is far more serious than physical injury, which will recover after a period of time, but psychological injury will accompany the child's life, will be passed on to his descendants, and will also affect his happiness index after marriage.
Third, treat children's learning rationally. Problem children's learning problem is not temporary, but long-term. Having children is more than just studying. He has other things to do. Don't use learning questions to erase all other questions, leaving only learning questions.
Children should be taught to study happily, not painfully. When you turn your child's study into a painful thing, the child will only resist and hate.