Family learning atmosphere will affect values and learning outlook. At the beginning of life, human nature is good and similar, far from learning from each other. ? Everyone is good at birth, but because of the different learning environment in the process of growing up, there are differences in temperament. Similarly, our children have experienced the interference of too many students' babies, which has gradually affected their nature since then.
In our class, there are such different students:
One is a well-off family, a well-written book, knowledgeable parents, a low-key person, and a fragrant manner. It is difficult to see the difference of children's knowledge between grade one and grade two. Recently, it has been the third grade, and even the problems of training students' logical thinking in mathematics can be seen when they come into contact with composition.
During a home visit, I chatted with my parents and found that my mother's logic was clear. If we talk deeply, we can say that she reads widely. Every weekend, the two girls will shuttle through bookstores in the streets. Because they have expressed their views on a detail, they will be flushed, and they will cry and be sad for a long time because of a touching moment, just like friends who have forgotten the years, like front-line research friends who learn from each other and encourage them to move forward.
The other one, from our class? Fat brother? The reason why he is called Fat Brother is because he is too lazy to use his brain and hands. If he doesn't go to school, he may be too lazy to write.
Actually, I can't blame him. I have met his parents several times, and every time I meet them, my world view will be refreshed. My parents' attitude towards his study at ordinary times is due to the teacher's face. At that time, they will be indignant and promise to educate their children and guide them to read more books, but they will be safe afterwards. Take children's studies as a joke and muddle along.
I met him in math diary. As I am preparing the exhibition of Children's Day in math diary for the Ministry, I asked all my classmates to prepare an illustrated work to consolidate my knowledge. The requirement for fat brother is that his parents help him finish it and he can get a job the next day. Miscellaneous ideas and tangled articles can be called an article without any nutrition. Vernacular .
Once again, it was really done with the help of their parents. I never despise or despise any students or parents. On the contrary, I understand them very well. Because of the different environment, parents' literary realm can't be reached, but it's not their fault. Similarly, their environment also influenced the third generation. No way, society is like this, it is cruel, but it is difficult to change.
If parents have low academic qualifications and can't study, will children be worthless? Lin Wandong, 7 13, a poor student from Yunnan, is a freshman in Tsinghua University. Qiu Yong, president of Tsinghua University, named him at the freshman entrance ceremony. Lin Wandong was born in a small mountain village in Adu Township, Xuanwei City, Yunnan Province, which is a deep poverty-stricken area in China. Because of his father's back injury, he can't do heavy work, and his family's economic source depends on his mother moving bricks and transporting sand at a construction site in Kunming.
How can such a poor child, such a parent with limited educational level, cultivate such an excellent child?
Although parents don't know how to read, they can't give their children more advice on their studies, but they understand that educating their children must be done first? People? It is more important to have a correct sense of purpose, a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and values. Lin Wandong knows very well that if you want to change your destiny, you must go out of the mountains.
A child who studies hard can never be too bad.
So how should children read?
Parents should set an example and create a learning atmosphere. Is it possible that you are lying on the sofa playing mobile phones and games, but you want your children to read more and study more? Over time, children will distrust their parents and the parent-child relationship will become more and more contradictory.
Cultivate children's reading habits from an early age. My son is three years old. I usually buy him an animated book to read. Before I go to bed at night, I sit with my children and my mother and read. They read their own books, and they don't affect each other. Occasionally children will ask questions that we don't understand. What is the most frequently asked question? Why? then what .
Now before going to bed every day, he takes the initiative to let us read books. Sometimes when I am tired and want to go to bed early, he will say? I haven't read it. Cultivate children's interest and awareness in learning from an early age, and grab reading from dolls.
With the awareness and interest in learning, children will accept it from the heart, like reading, and form habits.
Yesterday, Meng Mu chose a neighbor? It is also important to provide a reading atmosphere for children, and the so-called sense of ritual is also very important. In the habit formation stage, parents must study with their children.
Grow in reflection and make progress in comprehension. Summarize and reflect on the articles you read, sort out the written materials and form your own materials.
To sum up, in the face of learning, children's expression is very important, which I have always emphasized? The power of sound? That is, what you see, hear, think and feel must be expressed through your mouth. At the same time, your ears are listening and your brain is working. Even in the vernacular, you dare to express and are good at expressing, which not only exercises your language expression ability, but also deepens your learning impression.
Finally, give it to yourself and to you as a parent. Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road? With the right sense of purpose, why worry about losing a book?
I am Mr. Li Shangshan, who is concerned about the growth education of teenagers. Welcome your different opinions and opinions. Thank you for forwarding your comments.