1, don't look after the children with colored glasses.

It is a fallacy to "steal the needle when you are young and steal the gold when you are old", because even if children have the experience of "stealing" options when they are young, only a few really become thieves.

Therefore, when you find the child stealing, you think the child's behavior is incorrect. Seeing children with colored glasses and being wary of them everywhere will push them to the abyss.

The story of stealing money.

I wonder if you ever stole money from your parents when you were a child? I stole it, just once. Writer San Mao also stole money from her parents. Coincidentally, Sanmao and I both stole five dollars, but the results were different. Sanmao finally returned the money to her parents (secretly), and her parents pretended not to know, so Sanmao later got two yuan more pocket money every month. I'm not that lucky. I lost five dollars. Although I have no flesh and blood pain, I respect my father's majesty. Finally, I confessed and won leniency. I remember it very clearly. I didn't go to school at that time, probably just changed my pants. .......

It was a hot summer, and I was at the age of scurrying around the streets and annoying. One day during my nap, while my parents were asleep, I secretly got out of bed and ran out without shoes. When I stopped to breathe, I felt smoke in my throat, so I sneaked home to drink water, and my face was covered with black lines washed out by sweat. After drinking the cool water, I saw my parents holding a cattail leaf fan in their hands and shaking it from time to time to drive away the falling flies, but I didn't find that I had got out of bed. Secretly pleased, ready to sneak out again. Just as I was walking and looking back, I saw the money lying on the table at a glance, and my feet didn't listen to me. Although I didn't know the concept of five dollars at that time, and I didn't think about how to spend it, I knew that money could buy many things, so the idea of taking that five dollars made me nervous.

When my pounding heart calmed down, I was standing under a big tree far from home, clutching my crumpled five dollars. Looking at the money in my hand, I'm worried. I only wore a pair of trousers without pockets and no shoes that day. Where should I put them? Soon, I came up with a brilliant idea-put five yuan flat, roll it into a stick, then put it under the elastic band at the waistband, and then roll it down, and the money will be hidden inside. Then I went to play with my friends who also didn't want to take a nap. Every once in a while, I feel the money in my pants. I gradually forgot that my friends were dragged home by my mother after sunset. I just remembered the money in my pants. When I touched it, there was nothing in the empty place. I don't know when and where the five dollars fell.

I came home late that day, ate something in a hurry and went to bed early, to be honest. Nothing seemed to happen that night, so I got into bed again and planned how to play tomorrow. When I woke up the next day, my parents had already got up. They all seemed to be looking for something, and their expressions were very anxious. Suddenly I remembered to take five dollars, so I closed my eyes and pretended to sleep. At the same time, something seems to flow out of my eyes.

When my parents searched all the possible places to put money, they turned their eyes to me. After dinner, my mother cleaned the dishes without saying a word as usual. Dad lost his old smile and looked serious. I have a premonition that I am at a loss. Sure enough, my father lit a cigarette and asked me to sit in front of him. There are ghosts in my heart and I have to obey. My father looked at me for three minutes, and now I understand that my father was thinking about how to say it so as not to hurt my self-esteem and let me admit it voluntarily. At my age, my parents usually take the form of "beating", but my father doesn't. Dad finally spoke and began to tell me a story of "thief and mother": there was a man who often took things from children when he was a child. When he got home, his mother not only didn't criticize him, but also praised him for being smart and capable. With the encouragement of my mother, I became more and more courageous and gradually developed the habit of stealing. Later, when I was old, I stole what was valuable. Finally, he was arrested once by the Public Security Bureau and sentenced to death. On the day of the execution, his mother also went and cried bitterly, but her son didn't shed a tear. When she was in the execution ground, she said to her mother, "I grew up eating your milk when I was a child." Let me have a bite after I die. " Mother agreed with tears in her eyes, but he bit off her nipple and shouted "I hate you" at her. I listened to my father's story with my eyes wide open. At that time, I didn't understand the meaning of the story, let alone my father's intention. But when I know that a man was shot for stealing money, I feel scared, as if the gun had been pointed at me. I stammered about the "criminal process". When my father heard this, he didn't say anything, but smiled at me, which made me very uncomfortable. After that, I was still penniless, and my parents didn't give me pocket money like Sanmao's parents did. Later, I learned that the five dollars were borrowed by my parents to pay my sister's tuition.

From that night to now, I always have a morbid understanding of money and don't want to deal with it. At the sight of money, I will think of the summer when I was a child, the fear of those two days, the story of "thief and mother" told by my father, and an unspeakable humiliation will come to my heart and make my heart beat.

I know that I will not be too interested in money in my life, although I have always been inseparable from money.

How to educate children who steal money?

1/4 Step by step reading

Treat children stealing money calmly. Many mothers are flustered when they know that their children are stealing money. First of all, mothers should keep calm.

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Ask the child the reason behind stealing money. Is the child because he has no pocket money or something? If the child confesses and bravely admits his mistake, don't beat and scold. Parents should be happy for their children, tell them that everything can be discussed, and let them clearly realize that it is wrong to do whatever it takes.

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Teach children to use money correctly and learn to manage money. People's desires are endless. If children want something but can't satisfy it, tell them why. Try to reach a settlement with your child so that your child can better adjust his mentality.

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Parents should set an example in front of their children and manage their money and consumption habits. Stealing money is a way to deal with children's problems. Although it is wrong, it is also a witness to growth. Parents should patiently enlighten their children and believe that they will correct their mistakes.

Is there a story in Boss that a mother loves her children? Finally, the child stole something and went to prison.

Once upon a time, there was a mother who loved her children very much. She has held her children in her hands since she was a child. One day, the child grew up and went to school. One day, the child came back with a classmate's toy. Mother asked him if he was a gift from his classmates. He said he took it secretly. His mother didn't blame him or dissuade him, but treated it with encouragement. Her mother said, "You can have anything you want!" "

The child is growing up, and the disease will still be in the child. Once he stole something from others, and was finally found out and went to prison.

When his mother visited him in prison, he said to her, "Mom, I haven't seen you for a long time. May I have a sip of your milk? "

Mother agreed. As a result, the child bit off his mother's * * * and said, "Mom, it is because of your rebellious love since childhood that I am today! ! ! ! ! "

There is an ancient Greek story about a mother who encouraged her children to steal when they were young. What's the specific story?

Aesop's Fables

The child who stole from the East and another mother.

A child stole a classmate's clipboard at school and took it home to his mother. Mother not only does not criticize, but also

Praise him for his ability The second time he stole a coat and gave it to his mother, who was very satisfied and praised him even more. as time goes on

After death, the child grew into a young man and began to steal bigger things. On one occasion, he was caught red-handed with his hands tied behind his back.

Be escorted to the executioner. His mother followed, beating her chest and crying. At this moment, the thief said that he wanted to talk to his mother.

Words. His mother went up at once, and his son suddenly bit her ear and tore it off. Mother said he was unfilial,

It's not enough to commit the crime of beheading, but also to beat the mother. The son said, "When I stole the slate for you, if you could hit me."

A meal, why did I end up in such a sad ending and be taken to die today? "

This story shows that if a small mistake is not punished at first, it will definitely lead to a big mistake.

Lu's children have been stealing money for a long time. What if you can't say how to fight?

Our two children are still young and don't understand the concept of money. They only want things, but they can't get them. But soon I will grow up and have the concept of money. All mothers have to face this problem. 1, I won't beat or scold children. In fact, impulse is the devil, and I don't know if I will really calm down at that moment. But I know in my heart that fighting is not the way! The key is to let him know about money and use it wisely. In addition to giving him the right amount of change on weekdays, he also needs to learn how to manage money by himself. Change it slowly and you will know how to cherish it. Take your time, don't be eager for quick success or it will backfire. It is not worth the loss to make children rebellious. 2, to have a good education, it is said that children are white paper, how parents look at their children, and then imitate. I'm not saying that children have to watch their parents steal money to learn ... that's not what I mean. In fact, there is no need to be nervous about this kind of problem. Everyone has come from a young age, and more or less they have a feeling that when they see that other children have money to spend and delicious food but they don't have it, they want to ask for it from home, but they are afraid that they won't give it to them at home, so they have to secretly hold flowers. Thought it would go unnoticed. Therefore, we must first understand the situation, patiently convince and educate him that this is a bad habit, and at the same time, we can give him some pocket money at ordinary times. Don't let him steal money from home. That's hard to get back. Children tell him more stories about honesty. There are many stories in idioms. Older children ... should be subtle but don't ramble, take the children and start from real life. The fact is that many times children are in conflict. 3, be careful not to hurt his self-esteem, the child who will steal money is estimated to have a certain age, at this time, the psychology should be self-aware. Actually, stealing money is not a big deal. Come to think of it, didn't we want to eat with our parents' money when we were young? I did it. But it depends on whether you dare ... shame. Why do children steal things? Because normal needs are not met, he has to take reasonable actions. Therefore, the child's reasonable requirements should satisfy him. ? But he can't be satisfied blindly, which can only arouse his greater greed. To meet children's needs reasonably, I suggest giving priority to spiritual rewards, supplemented by materials. Only reasonable and legitimate basic material needs can satisfy him. For those who can't meet the needs, be patient and explain to him. Never treat children's demands in a simple and rude way. It is best to reward him for his efforts to meet something other than his basic needs, such as toys and snacks, which is very helpful for children to develop a positive attitude. Don't show off your financial resources to meet children's needs, which will have a great negative impact on children's growth. ? Parents set an example and pay attention to words and deeds, which will play a positive role in children's growth. Four or five words will be over. ...

Qi has a story about educating pupils not to steal things indiscriminately.

One afternoon, two children in school uniforms, Huahua and Qiangqiang, walked into a supermarket again, and the owner of the supermarket, Yang Xin, suddenly "hitched". Huahua and Qiangqiang go to a nearby primary school. They have been wandering around the supermarket for three consecutive days after school, and will not leave for a long time, but they only bought lollipops at the entrance of the supermarket, so Boss Yang thinks they are a bit strange.

This time, he really saw Huahua and Qiang Qiang come to the innermost counter of the supermarket, took some pens and cartoon notebooks, and quickly stuffed them into their pockets. Then they came to the supermarket and bought two lollipops.

When Huahua and he were going to pay the bill only with lollipops, Boss Yang deliberately smiled and pointed to the child's bulging pocket and asked, "What's in the pocket?" The two children looked flustered, and Huahua pretended to be calm and replied, "It's my usual pen and notebook." "Oh, the things you used look very new." Huahua and Qiang Qiang were suddenly speechless and bowed their heads.

When Huahua admitted stealing, Boss Yang gently asked, "Where do you live? I called your parents. " But they never talk. It's getting dark "Don't want to say forget it. Hungry? My family is getting ready for dinner. Let's eat together. " Boss Yang prepared bowls and chopsticks for Huahua and opened two packs of instant drinks.

Perhaps because of guilt, the two children stopped after a few bites. "Remember,' Thieves steal needles, thieves steal gold', you can't do this kind of thing in the future." Boss Yang patted them on the back and contacted the police. With the help of the police, they sent Qiang Qiang and Huahua home together.

Later, I learned that Huahua and Qiangqiang were only eight and nine years old respectively. Finally, Ms. Liu, the parent, was deeply moved by Boss Yang's failure to reprimand the child: "I didn't expect Boss Yang to remain silent and didn't hurt the child's self-esteem." The two children also felt something, blushing and telling their parents that they would never steal again.

(7) Extended reading of the story of children stealing money:

From primary school to middle school, I often hear that things are lost in class. At first, pencils, erasers, knives and notebooks were lost, and then money was lost. Nowadays, for some students, this situation is really disturbing and worrying: not stealing is the basic moral principle that people should abide by. What will happen to such a bad student after he enters the society?

In retrospect, what about the conduct of some adults now? I'm afraid it's even more humiliating As we all know, fake and shoddy products emerge one after another, and they are pervasive. The phenomena of telling lies, doing false things, eating too much and taking too much, corruption and bribery are gradually spreading and becoming more and more serious. Isn't it just the behavior of some adults with judgment and self-control?

Why does our country, where moral education has always played an important role in education, lose even the most basic moral integrity in some places and some people? The reasons may be complicated, but I think the most important point is the lack of education we have cultivated for many years.

American psychologist william james said: "Sow an action and reap a habit;" Sow a habit and reap a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny. "

Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator in China, also said: "What is education? In a simple sentence, it is to develop habits. " "Moral education is to develop good behavior habits, intellectual education is to develop good study habits, and physical education is to develop good exercise habits."

It can be seen how important it is to do a good job in training and education. In a word, it plays a very important role in the all-round development of students and the improvement of the overall quality of the whole nation.

"Ba" Situation Story: How should children be educated for stealing money?

You can let several children play games together, and the thief is caught by the police. Then everyone pointed at him and criticized him, handed him over to the public security bureau and detained him. You must be detained, even if you take money to find a guarantor, you still have to pay back the money.

Through these plot designs, let children know that stealing money is shameful and the consequences are very serious.

"Nine" found that children stole money, how would you educate them?

As parents, we are all shocked when our children steal things and money. But shock is shock, and we need to sit down and think about why. Because children's cognitive development has a process, we should also treat children before the age of 7 and children after the age of 7 correctly.

After this little incident, the child never took a penny from his parents again. So I think children still have their own reasons for making such mistakes, as well as parents' reasons. It is painful for parents to guide correctly, not to impose the concept of "thief". Only in this way can children grow up healthily and happily, and we can become good friends and parents on their way to growth.