First, we can't just spoil it.
Spoiling is the destruction of children. Now Xiong Haizi, many people say that it is because of the education of grandparents that he has become like this. After all, by contrast, my father's confidence is not as strong as my grandfather's.
Most parents live in a precarious situation, and earning some money is not enough for their own use. Naturally, they don't have much confidence in their children. Sometimes they can't afford what their baby wants.
On the other hand, the elderly are different. Most of them have pensions and don't spend much money in life. Therefore, they have an attitude towards their children to buy whatever they want, which creates a habit of doing whatever they want.
Second, cultivate children to work hard.
It is said that boys need to be poor, and girls certainly don't have to be rich. Poverty and wealth are not economic, but spiritual.
Most parents don't give their children material deprivation, but they are spiritual and don't have much time for education. Then this important task can be handed over to grandparents, who are old and poor, and know that life is not easy.
You can cultivate children's hard-working character, show them the countryside, see how difficult it is to farm, and then let them know how much effort their parents have devoted to him.
Third, learn to "show weakness"
Never show an attitude that everything can be satisfied in front of children. In fact, after the child makes a request, we can refuse it appropriately, let the child know that the family is not omnipotent, and let the child know how to fear.
In this way, in the future, children will think twice before they act, reducing the burden on their families. As for Xiong Haizi, it was a fever that brought great disaster to his parents.