A masterpiece that changes the way parents communicate with their children. Parents can help children become a high-quality person, a person with compassion, courage and obligation, a person with courage, vitality and integrity. Love alone is not enough, and insight is not enough. Good parents need skills, and how to acquire and use these skills is the main content of this book. Most parents are not aware of the destructive power of language. This misfortune often occurs in communication, not because of lack of love, but because of lack of understanding of children; Not because of lack of wisdom, but because of lack of communication skills.
Heim g Guinot, doctor of psychology, clinical psychologist, child psychologist and pediatrician; Adjunct Professor of Psychology at the Graduate School of new york University, postdoctoral fellow at Ajder University of the Philippines. Relying on his professional wisdom, he has done a lot of creative work and made great achievements. His innovative ideas on how to communicate with children in books, speeches and columns have won great repercussions not only in the United States but also around the world.
Second, the book that parents of middle school students must read: Growth is more important than success.
This book tells the story of how a group of China people grew up to be the best people. "Growth" is a topic related to education, talents and even the whole society. They don't have smarter brains than we do, and their education system is no different from ours. But why did they become different from us?
The writer is Ling Zhijun, a senior editor and journalist of People's Daily. He believes that the most important thing is not to "beat others", but to "be the best of yourself". Every true story, every vivid comment and every sincere word in the book can be a solid step on the road to growth.
Third, the book that parents of middle school students must read: Lifelong Learning.
Think about whether we deserve to be parents. Think about our education and how we become mediocre day by day. If education is like molding people with various standards and foreign flavors with molds, teaching people to seek a sense of security, to become important people, or to live a comfortable life as soon as possible, then education will only contribute to the misfortune and destruction of this world; If education is just a profession and a way to make money, how can teachers help every student with love and make them curious about themselves and the world? In this book, Krishnamurti, a famous Indian philosopher, suggested that we must illuminate ourselves with our own light, thinking that all our life's teaching is to help mankind get rid of fear and ignorance completely and realize the realm of compassion and happiness. In fact, it is a classic sentence in front of the ancient Greek temple: know yourself.
4. A must-read book for parents of middle school students: Little Peas by the Window.
This book tells a true story of the author in primary school. After being expelled from the original school for being naughty, the author came to Ba Xue Garden. Under the care and guidance of President Kobayashi, Xiao Doudou, who is "weird" in the eyes of ordinary people, has gradually become an acceptable child, laying the foundation for her life. This book not only brought countless smiles and touches to tens of millions of readers around the world, but also injected new vitality into the development of modern education and became one of the most influential works in the world in the 20th century.
The author is Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, a famous Japanese writer, a famous TV presenter and a goodwill ambassador of UNICEF. This is her masterpiece. After the publication of 198 1, as of 200 1, the cumulative sales volume of Japanese edition reached 9.38 million copies, making it the largest selling book in Japanese history. This book has been translated into 33 languages and introduced to all parts of the world. When the English version was published in the United States, The New York Times published two full-page book reviews. This "honor" was not only won by no one before her, but also by no one else after her. The English version of the book has sold more than 700,000 copies in Japan alone, and no one has surpassed it so far. The translator's name is Zhao Yujiao, and she graduated from the Japanese Studies Center of Beijing Foreign Studies University with a master's degree in Japanese literature.
Five, parents of middle school students must read books: twelve letters to youth.
This book is twelve letters written by Mr Zhu Guangqian to young friends in China during his stay in Europe. The main purpose is to persuade young people to work hard fundamentally and not to be eager for quick success and instant benefit. Most of the things mentioned in the letter are things that young people care about and should care about, such as reading, cultivation, composition, social movements, love, philosophy and so on. Mr. Zhu Guangqian is as serious as the persuasion of his elders, as sincere and sincere as the conversation of his old friends, and his reading is cordial and natural. I wonder how parents who force their children to take exams will feel after reading this book.
6. A book that parents of middle school students must read: Why do children go to school? Kenzaburo Oe
This book tells the story of Kenzaburo Oe, the winner of the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1994, taking care of his mentally retarded son Hikari Oe, thinking, "What should adults give their children in childhood?" In a simple and informal way, DJI tells the story that the life philosophy and reading attitude acquired in childhood will affect people's life. All the color pictures in the book were painted by Mrs. Dajiang. This book continues the humanistic care spirit of Nobel literature master Dajiang, with delicate description and unique vision, which will definitely bring new parenting feelings to parents with children. Other related works: A Quiet Life, Exchange Children, etc.
Seven, parents of middle school students must read the book: "Come on, children".
This book is the latest documentary literature of Chi Li, a famous writer in China. In the book, Chi Li, with the brush strokes of an ordinary mother, wrote from the time before the birth of her daughter, Yi Chi, that after her parents divorced and experienced a sinister heart, she kept a generous and kind heart. Writing mother and daughter from kindergarten, primary school, middle school all the way to seek happy growth under the pressure of education in China, and finally decided to study in Britain and get an ideal education.
She believes that the growth of her daughter is not only a simple family education, but also the common growth of herself and her daughter. In addition, according to her daughter's growth, Chi Li questioned some drawbacks of China's education system. She hopes to use her own and her daughter's growth experience to tell everyone that there are other options for children's growth and education. Chi Li believes that life has no starting point or ending point. Everything is a process, and every stage needs to be experienced, felt and experienced with heart. She thinks the widely circulated phrase "Never let a child lose at the starting line" is extremely asshole.