I. Chinese Education Bian Xiao is regarded as Chinese education by most people, and most people still care about their children's grades and exams. Children will also face large and small exams in the process of growing up, always taking exams, and children are not encouraged to have other skills. At the same time, children will feel very painful in this process, and teachers will attach great importance to their achievements. In short, everything is based on grades, and the environment is forcing them to study. Some children's favorite majors or projects will be intimidated by their parents to give up.
Second, Western-style education shows that foreign countries do not pay much attention to grades, but foreign countries attach great importance to the cultivation of children's personal qualities, that is, whether children have characteristics. Most western children are very confident and have no doubt about their abilities. This is what children in China lack most. Western education is more suitable for encouraging children to participate in social practice and learn knowledge, which is actually learned in social practice. This also increases the practical ability, courage and self-confidence of western children. Many middle school students are brave, insecure and want to give up in the face of difficulties. But in the west, it is rare to see a child say that he wants to give up unless he really can't.
Third, the difference between parents causes such reasons, one is the difference brought by society, and the other is the difference brought by parents. Many parents actually coerce their children to study in another way, perhaps to accompany me to read what I gave up, but in fact, this process will bring psychological pressure to children. This is why many parents abroad never put pressure on their children, but in foreign countries, children really have to rely on their own ability to survive in society when they grow up.