1, goal, people can have no great ideals, but they can't lose their goals. Under the system of one exam for life, no matter how hard you usually work, how hard you work and how powerful you are, as long as you fail the exam, you will be eliminated! You have to understand that too much homework, too heavy schoolbags and studying day and night are not cruel to adults, but to reality!
2, positioning, at home, all the only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many emperors, no one will take you seriously! Unless your grades are better, your talents are more outstanding, and your performance is better, the teacher still treats you as a treasure. The same is true of society. In the future, whether you want to be rich or poor, whether you want to live in a bungalow or a villa, whether you want others to look down on you or respect you, you should be responsible for it yourself.
3, study, in school, study is the main, but not the only, study well but poor physical fitness, which is no different from "reading, reading more, getting more pigs." For class reunion, compare it: 20 years old is better than education, 30 years old is better than ability, 40 years old is better than experience, 50 years old is better than financial resources, 60 years old is better than physical strength, and 70 years old is better than medical records. In the final analysis, it is more important than health, son. Have a good exercise.
4. The future, a person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through study, ability can be increased through practice, but attitude is formed through habit. You sometimes lack the perseverance to cultivate good habits. It's not too late to correct your attitude. In the future, I hope everything you do will benefit yourself and others.
5, yourself, at school, teachers have no obligation to be good to you, unless you respect teachers first, students have no obligation to care about you, unless you care about your classmates first; In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father. Don't think that the world can't turn around without yourself, and don't give up on yourself because you are young.
6. Friends, making friends is like investing. Of course, you should consider the return on investment. If you find a friend and the friend doesn't give you a return in the end, it can only prove that your investment has failed. You should make friends with people who are better than you, especially remember to help your friends when they are in trouble.
7, love, sooner or later, you have to fall in love, don't expect the beauty of love too much, don't exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn. Shake hands with beautiful women, talk with profound women, communicate with successful women and live with ordinary women. That's the mentality. Good.
8. Distance. As parents, everyone is eager to have a shorter distance from their children, but as children grow up, the sky that belongs to you will surely become wider and wider, and the space distance and time distance from parents will surely become farther and farther. Of course, parents are particularly concerned about how much space their children can occupy in the sky!