Women are duplicitous. When they say "don't", they really want it. This is a truth that everyone understands. A woman can't ignore what she says, but she must never listen.
Understanding is one thing, doing is another.
If you ask a woman, "Do you prefer a hard (strong) man or a soft (gentle) man?" Ninety-nine percent of women will answer you: "I like gentle men". If you believe what she said, you are really stupid.
In fact, compared with gentle men, "hard" men are more attractive to women. Today I will analyze what kind of men are "hard" men.
1, strong leadership
Many women say they hate that kind of male chauvinism. But there is an advantage of male chauvinism that all men should learn-a gas field exclusive to men, a hard and powerful gas field, which attracts women the most.
Of course, this kind of aura is not needed anytime and anywhere. Timely strength can not only lead women, but also play an unexpected role
Give two simple examples:
1. When chatting, if you want to pull up the relationship with your sister, you can say, "We don't quarrel over trifles like others, we should get along well and respect each other."
At this time, if your sister may reply "hmm" and "oh" coldly, you should take a tough attitude and guide her to "hear it!" Sister will "listen" according to your meaning.
2. The relationship with my sister has been improved in the chat, but you tried to invite her several times, but she refused for various reasons. Finally, my sister agreed to your invitation, but she hesitated because of an unexpected situation.
At this time, you need to urge her to come. As long as the relationship in the chat is pulled up, the sister will compromise and think that you are a man.
Although men's strength can attract women, it is necessary to understand that strength is not bullying. Strength is not up to you, but you have to master the scale.
Step 2 be responsible
I understand "responsibility" this way: because of the girl you like, you are likely to encounter difficulties, but you still go forward.
If the girl you like is in trouble, you are beside her, but you want her to solve it by herself, even if she is wronged, you want her to make up. There is a word to describe such a man-"cowardice".
Many brothers may still not understand what I mean by responsible. Let me give a friend an example:
My good friend Xiao Y and her boyfriend have been together for two years, and they are inseparable every day. Xiao y shows her love in her circle of friends almost every day. Last month, Xiao Y told us that she broke up with her boyfriend, and a group of friends were shocked. A two-year relationship is no joke.
But after learning the truth later, we thought that Xiao Y made a very correct choice.
On the day of breaking up, Xiao Y and her boyfriend went to the supermarket to buy things. There were many people in the supermarket that day, and there was a long queue when checking out. Xiao y waited in line for a long time, and finally there were only a few people in front, and suddenly an aunt came in.
Xiao y is always a straight-tempered girl, quarreling with her aunt, who speaks badly, and every sentence is swearing. Little y, a little girl, can't compare with the aunt who gossips in the neighborhood all the year round. She soon fell behind and suddenly felt very wronged. She didn't hold back her tears and cried directly. Then his boyfriend said, "Forget it, let's wait in the back for a while."
Xiao Y was shocked by her boyfriend's words. "Are you my boyfriend?" No matter whether she has paid the bill or not, she will go home from the supermarket and directly blacken all her boyfriend's contact information.
Xiao y's boyfriend is usually very kind to her, but he has a fatal flaw, that is, cowardice. His girlfriend was wronged, but he was afraid to stand up and protect her. He also intends to make peace.
When a woman chooses a man, she doesn't look at how sweet the man usually speaks, but at whether he can take responsibility when he is in key interests and whether he will stand in front of a woman to shelter her from the wind and rain.
3. Self-motivation
In fact, most brothers know this very well. No one likes people who are content with the status quo, unwilling to change and unwilling to make progress.
Self-motivated men are ambitious for their careers and want to show their talents. Some people say that "hard-working men are the most handsome, and women are hard to resist." That's because when a man is immersed in his career, he will unconsciously show his best side.
So besides hard work, what is the performance of self-motivation?
Have a clear plan for the future and work hard for it. For most people, it may not be a long-term plan, but it is good to set a short-term goal for yourself. After all, long-term goals are difficult to achieve.
For women, the most touching thing is that you have her in your future plan, and you are working hard for your future.
Talk less and do more, never beep blindly, just take strong action. Pick up a small notebook and concentrate on it. Simply put, when you want to complain that your girlfriend is not doing well, first think about whether you have done everything. I promised the girl what to accomplish, and I praised myself a lot, but I didn't do it.
Know when and what to do (do the right thing), and don't put your mind in the wrong place. There may be brothers here who have doubts about "what to do and what not to worry about". Work hard, cultivate hobbies in your spare time to enrich yourself, don't flirt around, and don't go astray for immediate interests.
Besides these, what do you think are the self-motivated performances? Welcome to leave a message
Since ancient times, women love tough guys. Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu in history, Bruce Lee in modern times, and even James Bond in movies all make women crazy about it.
A "harder" man makes women feel more secure and reliable. Therefore, most women prefer "hard" men.
If you have a brother, you may not believe it. Why can't gentle men be liked by women? Brothers, what do you think? Welcome to leave a message at the end of the article.
What are you going to do during the National Day holiday?
Play games for 7 days?
Get enough sleep for 7 days?
Go out with friends and make a glowing light bulb?
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This is a trip to pick up girls-the annual practical course of Ni Ai Education: Lijiang Plan.
Go on a trip with the actual god and pick up girls!