Experience in rural family education: 1. Fully understand the significance of family education.
As farmers' parents, there is no way and no need to compare what we provide to our children with the city in material terms. However, in family education, children should not be too backward and lose at the starting line. As parents, we must improve our own quality, know more about education, especially family education, and pay more attention to some educational programs when watching TV.
Educating children is the responsibility and obligation of every parent. Parents' words and deeds will have a subtle influence on their children's growth and play a role in moistening things. Therefore, we must attach importance to and strengthen family education, strengthen parents' sense of example and responsibility, constantly learn family education knowledge, and inject new connotations and concepts into family education. Good family education is a necessary condition for cultivating high-quality talents and a catalyst for optimizing children's minds. As parents, only by fully understanding the importance of family education, consciously doing a good job in children's education and fulfilling parents' responsibilities and obligations can we promote children's all-round development and cultivate qualified talents for building a harmonious society.
2. Establish a good family environment for children.
Because environmental factors are universal, regular, natural and accidental, children will be affected in many ways. Parents should lead by example, educate their children from every detail of life, and let them bathe in a harmonious, civilized, healthy and relaxed family atmosphere. Therefore, parents should strive to: improve their own quality and set a good example for their children; Have a set of family rules that children can accept; Provide rich life content for children; Be an assistant in children's study, guide and help children to accomplish what they can; Take every opportunity to exercise and cultivate children's self-care, self-reliance and frustration tolerance. In addition to children's study, parents can also subscribe to some magazines that are beneficial to intelligence, cultivate children's reading interest, help children form a conscious learning attitude, change parents' understanding of family education, and improve the quality of family education in rural areas.
3. Establish the concept of modern family education
Parents should change the narrow concept of educating their children to get ahead and honor their ancestors in the past, and strive to cultivate their children into builders and successors of the socialist cause with ideals, morality, education, discipline and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty; Change the traditional concept that children must obey their parents unconditionally, and actively cultivate their modern consciousness of science, democracy, self-reliance, fair competition and cooperation; It is necessary to change the concept of valuing wisdom over morality and knowledge over ability, pay attention to the cultivation of good psychological quality and the development of interpersonal coordination ability, and promote the all-round development of children. We should cultivate their confidence and courage in facing the backward reality of rural society and engage in the construction of rural society with a more positive attitude. Let children take part in some hard work since childhood, which can not only cultivate children's concept of loving agriculture and labor, but also cultivate children's non-intellectual feelings, enhance parent-child communication, let children understand their parents' hard work and promote their learning.
Children should also know that they are farm children. They should keep their true colors and have the spirit of hard work. Let children work properly in the fields, let them experience the hardships of life, feel the hardships of farmers and the hard-won fruits, so as to sympathize with the hardships and hardships of parents, appreciate the value of family ties, and learn to be grateful. They will study hard, strive for their own bright tomorrow, and increase their feelings for the countryside.
4. The premise of good communication between parents and children is listening.
Parents should put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your children from time to time: Is there anything interesting in school? Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? Whenever I ask my daughter this question, she is always excited to report everything to me. When she expresses her views on things, I will also respect her opinions, discuss with her and give her enough confidence and confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.
5. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges.
Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition from an early age and dare to meet challenges. In study, I often encourage my daughter to say: You are great, you are so smart, and you can answer such difficult knowledge correctly. Dad worships you. She was very happy to hear this, which also aroused her enthusiasm for learning. I always encouraged her when she was in trouble. At this time, I will work hard with my child and infect her with practical actions, and I have done it.
6. Cultivate children's adaptability
In practice, according to the ever-changing objective situation, we use our own intelligence and other factors to control ourselves, transform ourselves, realize the unity of subjectivity and objectivity, and thus ensure the ability of normal practical activities. It has been the basic ability to survive since ancient times. In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and move towards the other side of success.
7. Learn to be tolerant and patient.
Tolerance is a beautiful scenery. A person who can tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others is indeed a noble person. Such a person is a beautiful scenery in the world, and tolerance is an ability.
The experience of family education in rural areas: First, be independent and decisive, and cultivate children's ability.
Children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives. If parents want to be better than the next generation, they should let their children be their own masters. As parents, we should respect children's choices, give them the right to choose, and don't judge children by their own choices.
Second, moral education.
Personal character is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders, love others and not bully the weak. Children should appreciate what they do right and criticize what they do wrong, so that she can establish a correct concept of judging things right and wrong. Kindness, courtesy, civilization, right and wrong, and empathy should be mastered from an early age.
Third, develop good living habits, behavior habits and study habits.
Children are the embodiment of parents, and parents are their role models. Therefore, what we ask our children to do must be done by themselves first. Example is more important than words. Moreover, habits can't be formed overnight. We should help children persevere, persevere and gradually form habits. Tell her what's important and what's not. For doctors, time is life; For businessmen, time is money; For you, time is knowledge and growth. If you make good use of your time, you may thrive, but if you waste your time, you may be weak and dry. But work and rest are combined. Study hard when you should study, and have fun when you should play. The ultimate goal of education is not to score, but to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy it.
Fourth, praise and encourage more to cultivate children's self-confidence.
There is a famous educational saying: Let every child walk with his head held high. ? A child's self-confidence stems from his parents' love for her. Not stingy? I love you? Don't be ashamed to express these three words. If you love your children, your partner, your parents, you should say it. Not only that, we should fully trust her, respect her and tap her strengths. Less scolding, more tolerance, but no connivance; Less comparison, more encouragement; Less arrangement, more guidance; Less discouraged and more grateful. Maybe children will face their life with a smile.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) strengthens safety awareness education
There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so we should cultivate children's own safety awareness during their growth. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Children should be taught to know all kinds of safety signs, traffic signs, food signs and other signs. I am also very grateful to the kindergarten for cultivating children's safety awareness in an appropriate way at an appropriate time, and teaching them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to different growth stages and different environments.
Family education rural experience 3: let children know these 8 truths as soon as possible.
1, parents will always love you unconditionally.
Many mothers will say this in the process of educating their children: Your mother will like you if your baby is good. Mom won't play with you if you don't listen? .
This kind of love is conditional, and the child will realize that only? My mother will love me only if I behave well. ? But a naive and lovely child also has his own lively and naughty side. What should we do if we are more worry-free when teaching children? Love? To threaten him, how much fear will it bring to the child's young mind?
You know, a child who grew up in the bath of love will have a full sense of security and self-confidence wherever he goes. If the child knows that the love his parents give him is unconditional, then when we criticize him, he will still know that we are only targeting his behavior, not the individual. Such children can objectively accept their weaknesses and mistakes, and accept their imperfections, which is the basis of mental health.
2. Be sure to learn to say thank you.
Maybe you've been in this situation, and you've taken great pains to help someone, the last sentence? Thank you? No one makes you very unhappy, and secretly make up your mind: never help this person again next time; But if this person sincerely thanks you, no matter how tired you are, you will feel it is a kindness. As children grow up, teach them to speak? Thank you? Very important, this sentence can not only help children get more help and resources, but also reflect their basic education.
3. Independent children have stronger viability.
Even if we are the parents of our children, we can't always be with them. Teaching children the ability to live independently is the best wealth we can give them. Japanese parents have done a good job in this regard. Their children have been involved in housework since childhood and will make their own decisions, such as going to the store alone to buy their favorite toys. When traveling, parents will also ask their children for advice. Children who grow up in this environment will adapt to the external social environment more easily than other children and know what they want earlier in their life planning.
Only those who can't afford to lose can win.
It is the nature of every child to be competitive, but even a genius can't win every time. Those children who are afraid of losing would rather not participate, try or label them as losers. Who often laughs last? Can't you afford to lose? Kid. ? Can't you afford to lose? Child, the mentality is better than others, can you bear it? Lose? Can this blow still be there? Win? Stand on tiptoe in front of you. Tell children that loss is actually the accumulation of experience.
5. Sports is an interest that should be persisted for life.
A friend who has lived in the United States told me that the biggest hobby of Americans around her is sports or watching various sports competitions. Exercise is their way of life. If a person has no hobbies, he is embarrassed to talk to others. Back to children's education, cultivating children's interest in sports from an early age is as important as cultivating children's personal talents. A child who loves sports will not be too bad in physical and psychological quality. Health is the capital of revolution. What can we talk about if we don't lay a good foundation? Let children have more possibilities in the future?
6. It is important to keep a decent appearance.
Few parents around us will pay attention to their children's gfd, and even think that it is wrong to pay too much attention to their children's appearance, which will make them more vain. However, read more books and watch more international news, and you will know that people who can be called elites exude charm from the inside out. It is enough not to say that a person has inner nature. Some people are sloppy, but they are also very talented. This kind of person is a rare talent. Whether children can win more opportunities when they enter the society in the future depends not only on their knowledge, but also on their decent appearance. The same competitive opportunity, just appearance, can brush a lot of people!
7. You can be afraid and cry, but you must be brave afterwards.
Parents have encountered such a situation. When taking their children for injections, the children cried desperately because of fear. At this time, adults often say: don't cry, it won't hurt, it will be fine soon. ? In this way, we not only ignore the children's feelings of fear, but also deprive them of the right to cry.
The table tennis girl we are familiar with? Fukuhara Ai? Cry baby, watching her childhood videos, often hung a string of tears during practice, but she persisted and became a favorite athlete. Fear and crying are instinctive reactions of children, not cowardice. Tell your child that you can be afraid and cry, but you must be brave afterwards.
8. Diligence is the most important trump card for a person to surpass himself.
When we admire a person's achievements, we often think that this person is a genius, but in fact, we don't know what a genius has experienced. Mr. Lu Xun once said: There is no genius in the world. I just spend other people's coffee time at work. If children know this truth from an early age and put it into action, this precious quality is the most important trump card for children to surpass themselves.