Take classroom teaching as an example. The children responded positively and the teachers were happy and relaxed. Teachers will talk endlessly, freely, criss-crossing, contrasting and extending explanations, and students will learn deeply and thoroughly. This is an efficient classroom! Is it just right? Teacher Zong's sentence "The excitement on the stage comes from the applause from the audience!"
? The necessity for parents to constantly learn and improve themselves is certain! If there are small trees in the room, they can grow to the roof. The higher the roof, the higher the trees can grow! If the same small tree between heaven and earth is valuable, it is likely to grow into a towering tree! The model of parents is the ceiling of children. Your children are the trees you planted. What kind of nutrition you give it, what kind of water you use and how to prune it, it will grow into a tree. ? Teacher Zong said that China flying man Liu Xiang had a coach from. Then who is our child's head coach? It's the parents of the child! Teaching assistants are schools and society. ? How can a coach talk about strategy and progress without thinking and learning? Even if he takes illegal drugs, it will always be a bubble. ...
I am a mother. On the way of educating children, I often think that sometimes I am depressed, sometimes I lose myself, and sometimes I even change the way my parents taught me. I nagged, I growled, I threatened, and I did. Haha, yes, I'm at my wit's end and can only speak louder than anyone else. This is a sign of guilt and lack of self-confidence. President Liu pointed out the reason, "lack of educational awareness, educational wisdom and educational methods!" Since it is insufficient, we should study more. I don't even want to make progress in my studies. Why should I believe that your children can learn and make progress?
If one day, the child asks, "Why don't you work hard? Why didn't you become Ma Yun? " ? Why do you want me to do what you can't do? "Are we ashamed? In fact, in my subconscious, I think I am not successful enough. I have not provided my parents with superior conditions to make them worry-free in their later years, and I cannot guarantee the best mother for my children. As soon as Mr. Zong came up, he asked a question, "Why are you here?" Most people say, "For the children!" I said, "Improve yourself." Teacher Zong said meaningfully, "For yourselves! "So, this is the answer I have been vividly portrayed. We all hope to have a carefree old age without worrying about our children.
Mom, this is my main title, followed by wife, daughter and others. Mom is my greatest value. Daughter is excellent, daughter is timid, and daughter fails. She is still my daughter, and I am still her mother. The love between parents and children kills each other, and it is oneself who gets hurt in the end. So when children create problems for us, "no matter how bad it is, deal with emotions first and then solve things."
? How to solve this matter and solve this problem? Educated by Mr. Zong, I sorted out the following four points.
One: Say less or don't speak ill of dad. I chose the road myself, and so did my husband. I have to bite my teeth and go on, even if it's not good, I can't say it! The best love-dad loves mom, and mom loves dad. A happy and warm home gives children a sense of security and optimistic innate temperament. Is this what Mr. Zong said about "personality quality and vitality"? Denying the power of father, courage and masculinity, children learn and learn from it there.
Two: be a hypnotist. Mother said to the stupid child with poor grades, "You are a clumsy seagull with slow eyes in the blue sky, but you can cross the whole ocean." Those flying birds can't. " Haha, whether Einstein is in your home depends on whether you are Einstein's mother or not.
"Dad can't, you don't have to!"
"You just don't. The living room you cleaned up is the cleanest and brightest! "
"You are different. Your shoes are the most neat and beautiful I have ever seen! " These hypnotic words are used to.
Everyone likes to listen to good words, encourage children, praise children and give him some sweetness. Where there is sweetness, there is motivation. Fortunately, children believe everything you say.
Third: the direction of concern. Expand the advantages and ignore the disadvantages. Light up the advantages and drive the disadvantages with the advantages.
The best way to behave correctly: focus on good behavior and ignore bad behavior. The teacher gave several examples, which I don't think can be omitted, so I must share with you.
1. I am very happy that my child got 100.
You said, "This question is not difficult. How many students in your class took the exam 100? "
2. The child got 98 points and was complacent.
You said again, "What's the highest score in your class? You look at you, such a simple question, all wrong ... "
3. The child got 58 points and was trembling.
You threw away the test paper. "How did you get it? You are going to be silly! " "I don't want you! You are quick to pick up rubbish ... "
Teacher Zong's Language Model
1. I am very happy that my child got 100.
Teacher Zong said, "In my mother's mind, you have always been a child with a score of 100."
2. The child got 58 points and was trembling.
Teacher Zong said: "It doesn't matter, we have done this problem before, you should do it right! Look at such a difficult problem again. You have done it right. You are really learning material. Try again next time. "
Does the teacher's plan make people more comfortable? !
4. Make friends with your baby and maintain a good parent-child relationship. Please kneel down and make friends with the children.
"Being a baby's mentor can't be aloof. If you deny him, he will never be a person. "
"Every child is the seed of genius. There is no problem children, but our children have problems. "
I got it. When I study, I am a teacher (soon, I can't afford to be this teacher). At other times, I am a mother and the most interesting and reliable friend of my baby daughter!
"Children should be full of strength in their hearts and become the illuminators in the crowd" to make their life extraordinary. Turn a child into wealth, it is better to leave wealth to him. You can feel the real glory!
The headmaster, he even thought about educating students and training parents. I'm so glad that we met President Liu with great vision and big pattern!