In order to save the low birth rate of newborns, our country has introduced the policy of opening the second child in advance. This has also given many families a new member. Whether it's a brother or a sister, the relationship between the boss and the second is very close. Because my sister is young, she often bullies people at home, which gives my parents a headache, but everything has its vanquisher. For my sister, my brother's eyes often play a key role.

On this day, Bao Xiao's sister began to cause a sensation on the ground again. Even the mother could do nothing about her daughter's willfulness and was forced to turn a blind eye. But at this time, my brother suddenly went home. Now I hear my brother's footsteps. My sister's movements stopped, and her face turned like a book. From a mountain king to a good girl. The video has been sent out, causing heated discussion among netizens.

Netizen discussion

"Ha ha, my daughter is afraid of her brother. When her brother is fierce, he hides far away. "

"Isn't this video the status quo of my child? I laughed to death, and my sister turned her face faster than turning pages. "

"You want to cheat me to have a second child again? But this time I am really tempted. "

1. Parents should try their best to ask their children for advice.

Many parents think that children have no judgment of their own, so they never discuss anything with their children. In fact, this idea is wrong. When children can distinguish things, they have gradually formed their own way of thinking. If parents can treat their children like adults, they will feel important in this family and will not be threatened by the arrival of new members.

As parents, treat children fairly.

In fact, where there are people, there will be wars, and whether they are close relatives or not, there will always be friction. Children often have conflicts because of differences in personality, age and gender. But as children, children don't know how to solve their differences in an appropriate way.

At this time, whether parents' attitudes are fair or not has become the key to solving children's conflicts. We will find that many parents will tell Dabao that "Bao Xiao is a younger brother and sister, and we should be humble to him." But this will not solve the problem, but will intensify the contradiction between Dabao and Bao Xiao. The disadvantages of this kind of education will only make the relationship between children more tense.

As a fair parent, he will assign responsibilities according to the facts, rather than blindly protecting or criticizing. The contradiction between the two children does not necessarily require Dabao's humility.

3. Encourage Dabao to take care of Bao Xiao.

A pair of smart parents will not ignore the existence of the boss because of the birth of new members, but let the boss have a sense of participation in the arrival of his younger brothers and sisters. Conditional parents can arrange Dabao at home and provide Bao Xiao with some help within their power. Take care of Bao Xiao yourself. Only in this way can Dabao feel more belonging, and such proper interaction is conducive to enhancing the feelings between the two children.

In a second-child family, how to balance the relationship between two children is also a kind of wisdom.

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