But after taking care of her children for a long time, I thought, maybe in the future, I will be tempted to hit someone ... I remember I bought some things when I went to see my cousin, including some snacks. When I helped my cousin take care of her son, I took out some snacks for them to eat, but they were not satisfied and wanted more.
Children can eat a little snack, but not too much, enough is enough. This is my principle, so I turned him down. But there is a saying that "at the beginning of life, there is an inherent vice", which means that when a person is born, his mind and will are blank and confused, and he does things by instinct. There is no right or wrong, no good or evil, they only follow their own hearts.
So they want more. Even though I refused them once, twice and three times, one of them still hugged my leg and the other pulled my clothes. They shouted "Uncle, Uncle, I want to eat, I want to eat, I want to eat."
In fact, I have been trying to appease them and try to reason with them. I said, "Children should not eat too many snacks." "These things are all yours. No one will take them from you. Leave them there and eat them next time. " "Children should know how to be temperate." "Let me tell you a story ..."
Really, it's useless. No matter what I say, it is useless. He doesn't talk to you at all. He just kept shouting, "Uncle, uncle, I want to eat, I want to eat."
Mmp, I was so grumpy that I tried to restrain myself but I couldn't control it completely. The veins stood out suddenly and violently, and my whole body was stiff. I was thinking, md, if you were my son, my employer wouldn't kill you, and my employer wouldn't be surnamed Li! But he's really not. .....
Mom, I get angrier when I think about it. I can't hit him yet! ! ! After all, it is not your own child! !
I tried my best to suck milk, forcing myself to hold that anger and force myself to be calm and restrained. I squatted down, put my hands on his shoulders, let the two of us face to face, let our eyes meet.
I said word for word, "Jessica Hester Hsuan, you know, there are many things in this world that you can't get if you want them. There are many things in this world that you can't help but depend on people's will. "
At that time, I was thinking, my expression must be very ferocious now. It's a little scary. Will he be afraid or even want to cry?
But he just looked at me and said, "Uncle, uncle, I want to eat, I want to eat."
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Mmp, you have to fucking eat, eat, eat, eat, eat your uncle! ! ! It's really my uncle who can bear it, but my aunt can't! At that time, I picked him up directly, put him on my knee, grabbed his pants and pulled him down, and his glistening ass appeared in front of my eyes.
Anger makes me anxious and furious, but reason makes me restrain myself. I kept saying to myself, "He is your cousin's baby, so it's not good for you to hit him." "He is your cousin's baby. It's not good for you to hit him." I meditated for a minute, and then trembled and put down my hand bit by bit in mid-air.
Since then, I have never felt sorry for the child who was beaten, whether it was my own family or someone else's. Every cause has its consequences. There is no love for no reason, no hate for no reason, and no fight for no reason.
What the eyes see is not necessarily correct. In many things, the eye can only see the tip of the iceberg. I'm not their parents. I don't know them. I don't know what they are like. I am in no position to sympathize with them.
In the ignorant infancy, punishment and injury are necessary, and people should always be in awe, so that the so-called "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers" will not appear.
Punishment is a way to plant awe in their hearts, but it should be remembered that the standard judgment of punishment should not be judged by their own subjective standards, but rather by universal standards. The operation of smuggling goods will wait until he grows up.