Xinxin is a famous "naughty boy" in our class. In class, she not only has a lot of little tricks, but also always bothers other children. The children often tell him about him. I have repeatedly criticized and educated him, but I have not received good results. This child gives me a headache, but I have never found a good way to make him change.
One day, I saw that the electric fan was dirty, so I put a chair on the table before I could get it. I got up and stood there, my heart pounding, afraid of falling, and my legs trembled even more when I remembered it. Suddenly, I felt the chair stop shaking. I looked down and saw Yan Yan's two little hands holding the chair hard, which was really touching. Considering I'm so mean to him at ordinary times, what about the child?
I came down, gave him a thumbs-up and said, "Xinxin, you are so sensible, thank you, teacher", and kissed him on the face.
Maybe he has never praised him like this before. He blushed and left.
Since then, miracles have appeared. Yan Yan is very obedient in class and occasionally makes some small mistakes. But as soon as he touched my approving eyes, he sat down immediately. He especially likes to be with me when he is active and invites me to play games. From his childish face, I can see that his heart is full of excitement and confidence.
Teachers' casual praise is too precious for children and may change their lives. What a miracle!
Comb hair
Ping Liu is the "little princess" in our class. She is not only clean and beautiful, but also smart and sensible, and is deeply loved by teachers. Especially, she has a doll's hair. Whenever I see her hair in a mess, I comb it and tie it in a nice braid. She seems to know very well that this is the teacher's preference for him, and she can't live without me.
I saw Ningning's hair unkempt this morning and didn't comb it. I called her and asked, "Why don't you comb your hair?" Ningning said, "Teacher, I didn't comb it on purpose, so I asked you to help me comb it. Why do you only comb Ping Liu's braid every time? " I don't know what to say at the moment.
I suddenly realized that I had made a mistake unintentionally. Although it is a trivial matter to comb my hair, it has caused a sense of inequality in the children's hearts, which is not good for anyone.
I remember several times in class, Ningning was pulling her hair, and I criticized him, but he was indifferent. If this is my initiative to comb her hair, it will not only meet the child's psychological needs, but also will not cause a shadow to the child. Our goal is to make flowers and plants warm by sunshine. Did we do it?
3. Rui Rui no longer contains fingers.
"Teacher, Rui Rui has fingers at home again. I really can't help him. " When I walked into the park this morning, Rui Rui's mother said to me with a sad face. Rui Rui is the youngest child in our class. He was less than two and a half years old when he entered the park. Although he is smart in class and everyone likes him very much, he has a bad habit of having fingers, which is very troublesome. At home, Rui Rui's parents tried their best, but it was useless. Rui Rui has been in the park for almost two months. If he doesn't get rid of the habit of holding his fingers, it will have a great impact on his health in the future. Therefore, I must help Rui Rui get rid of this bad habit.
What can I do to make Rui Rui finger-free? What a coincidence! There is an activity called "Know Little Hands" this afternoon. I draw five kinds of feelings on each child's fingers and give them names, so that they can become good friends with finger dolls. We should love them, don't bite them, don't tolerate them, so the finger doll will be uncomfortable. Then, I inspired the children to say what skills finger dolls have. The children scrambled to answer many questions, and of course Rui Rui answered them actively. Taking this opportunity, I then asked, "Is the finger doll so dirty after all the things it has done?" Now let's observe it under the microscope. "Through observation, the children found that there are many bacteria hidden under the nails that we can't see with the naked eye. I'm telling you, if these bacteria are eaten in your mouth, they will get sick. So be sure to give the finger doll a bath in time and be a good boy who pays attention to hygiene. Since then, I have carefully observed some changes in Rui Rui and encouraged him in time. A week later, Rui Rui gradually got rid of the habit of shaking hands and fingers.
4. Encourage children to build self-confidence.
Outdoor activities have begun. Some children play with sandbags, some jump rope, some play with balls ... The yard is full of excitement and vitality, and children's smiling faces and happy laughter are everywhere. Even the most introverted Kiki children's faces are full of joy, like a small butterfly flying in the yard. Because Qiqi is transferred from other places, she is introverted and rarely contacts her peers. During the day's activities, she always felt that the child was less childish and more melancholy, and looked unhappy in the group. So when she is outdoors, she always hides in the corner alone, unwilling to play games with other friends, and can't master many activity skills. I often look at him with loving eyes, hold her little hand with warm hands, touch her head, hug her with open arms, let all the children in the class get close to her, play games with her, teach her to jump rope and play ball. One day, the children said to me, "Teacher, Kiki can jump rope!" " "How amazing! So I hugged her happily: "You are great, keep working hard!" " "Kiki's eyes exude a rare excitement at ordinary times, and her smiling face has become vivid. She also praised her in front of the whole class and asked her to jump rope for everyone to see. Since then, Kiki has shown her skipping skills from time to time. Many tricks made her jump easily, and other activities also improved. The whole person has changed and become talkative, lively and confident.
This incident made me understand that praise plays an inestimable role in early childhood education. It can help children establish self-confidence and form a good attitude of self-affirmation and self-appreciation. At the same time, it also made me realize that no matter which child needs love and warmth, especially when he comes to our collective, as long as everyone gives a little love and sincerely lends a helping hand, everything will become so beautiful!
5. Be vigilant to ensure children's physical and mental health.
Children are young, have poor safety awareness and lack of life experience. They dare to take risks when they see new things, so we must be vigilant, grasp the safety of children and prevent dangers at any time. According to the management experience in recent years, I have summed up three kinds of due diligence, namely, oral due diligence, eye due diligence and hand due diligence. Oral attendance is to explain to children repeatedly, remind them at all times, and always talk about safety; Eye protection is to keep every child's words and deeds in your sight, so as to prevent some dangerous accidents; Hand clothing is to find dangerous things around you and get rid of them in time. There are no hidden dangers. Only in this way can children have fun and be practical; Parents can be satisfied and assured; All our work can go smoothly.
6. Special care for special children
The outdoor activities began. Some children clap balls, some play with sandbags, some jump rope ... just like happy birds, they are active in the yard. Ke Weiwei's child is different from other friends, because he is disabled, not only can't see in one eye, but also has congenital bone and joint loss in his right leg. He just had a major operation a few months before he entered the park, and now he is still not very stable in walking and has poor language skills. For such a child, as a small class teacher, I should take care of him a hundred times while taking care of other children. Wherever I go, I always take him and hold his little hand for fear of any accident. But this time, I found that his little hand was breaking free. From time to time, he broke my hand with another little hand and said to me in an unclear voice, "Teacher, I want to play, too." In a word, my heart thumped and I felt that I had doubts about this special nursing method. I said, "Wei Wei, be careful not to fall." Let go of his little hand gently.
In our daily life, there are not a few children like Weiwei, who are disabled and are "injured birds". But he has his own ideals and wishes, and he also wants to play, play, imagine, create and fly like his peers. If the teacher never leaves him for a moment and cares for him a hundred times, it fully shows that the teacher has given him meticulous care from the physical aspect, but neglected his personality development. Although physically disabled, his brain is developing normally, and he can read and count well. He also wants to do what children want to do; What the child wants to play, he also wants to play. If other children play games and treat him as an exception, will it hurt his self-esteem and his mind? He will be dissatisfied with the teacher's concern and care for him. So, Wei Wei finally got up the courage and said to the teacher, "Teacher, I want to play, too." . Teachers should take care of him and exercise him slowly, so that he can adapt to the kindergarten environment and grow up healthily in this environment. No matter what activities or games, we should let him participate and join the collective team. Only in the activities, the teacher always takes extra care of him, which not only protects his self-esteem, but also lets other children know and learn to take care of their disabled friends. Knowing that helping each other is a virtue can better reflect an atmosphere of equality and harmony.