As an only child, in the eyes of parents, children are their sustenance and their future. Therefore, some parents are too impatient with the education of the only child, and even impose "early education" on their children's education, which leads to children's rebellious psychology. Some parents let their children go their own way and lack education, which leads to children's rebellion and lack of communication.

In real life, some parents are always worried that their children will "lose at the starting line". How to be a parent in the "only child" era?

1, parents need to learn new knowledge.

In the information age, knowledge is updated quickly and new things emerge one after another. If parents don't study hard, they will be at a loss in the face of their children who are making progress every day, making them feel that they have nothing to talk about with you, which will lead to their growing alienation from you.

Nowadays, TV programs and computer information have introduced many novel things and cartoons. Children will get bored with their parents if they don't understand the dynamics of such things. If he happily talks to you about how smart Joy is, and you are not just Joy, do you think children will like your performance?

Therefore, parents need to constantly learn new knowledge to solve the practical problems encountered in educating their children and cultivate their growth in an excellent way. In fact, when children grow up, we will grow up with them. Children help us become competent parents and make our life more perfect, mature and brilliant.

2. Communicate with the elderly and handle differences.

Children throw things when they lose their temper. In this case, parents and grandparents may have different education methods. If a child makes a mistake, parents must communicate with the elderly and handle differences before educating their children. When you "play the good COP", the old people at home take care of you, which will lead to the children's failure to correctly understand the mistakes.

Therefore, parents must maintain a consistent attitude on the issue of educating their children. When a child loses his temper, don't form several factions among adults. Some people ignore it, some coax it, some leave the children, and some run to please them, let alone argue in front of them.

Once a child makes a mistake or loses his temper, all elders must communicate well and the whole family should adopt a consistent attitude towards the child. Otherwise it will aggravate the child's crying.

3. Pay attention to your words and deeds.

Parents are the first and most important teachers for babies, and family education plays a vital role in children's growth, so what kind of parents will have what kind of children. Parents' words and deeds will affect children's thoughts and behaviors.

Children are very sensitive to their parents' behavior, and it is easy to experience life with their parents' emotions. If parents don't pay attention to their words and deeds, children will imitate their parents' behavior, thus developing bad living habits and ideological morality.

Therefore, parents should remember not to lose their temper often. In order to cultivate children's good character and not lose their temper, parents must set an example to create a good one for their children and avoid quarreling between husband and wife in front of them.

Parents should strive to create a good family environment atmosphere, so that children can maintain positive emotions and control the outbreak of bad emotions.

4. Give children more opportunities to exercise.

As the saying goes, "three years old and eighty years old", it can be seen that children's personality and behavior in early childhood are very important for their growth. If parents can consciously attach importance to the cultivation of children's living ability from an early age, and carry out comprehensive education on physical quality, psychological quality, ideological morality and behavior habits, it will get twice the result with half the effort.

Children who grow up in greenhouses have never experienced wind and rain, never faced difficulties, and their ability to withstand setbacks is low. Don't always "keep the children in the greenhouse". In the era of the only child, parents should give their children more opportunities to exercise.

In order to make our next generation strong and self-reliant, our families, schools and society should show less pity and care to the only child and give them more opportunities for exercise.

When educating their children, parents should communicate and understand with them more, find and correct their mistakes and shortcomings in time, encourage their strengths and specialties in time, and let them form self-confidence to face difficulties bravely.

5. Create a democratic family atmosphere.

Many families in China believe that children should obey their parents. If parents want their children to grow up healthily, they need to form their own personality in a democratic family atmosphere. Educating children can be said to be a thankless thing. Being too strict with children can backfire.

For example, parents will force their children to participate in various interest classes in order to satisfy their children's desire to "hope their children succeed and their daughters succeed". In terms of children's hobbies, parents don't respect their children's personality development and force their children to participate in various interest classes with their parents' will. However, due to children's dislike, children's self-confidence and enthusiasm for learning have been dampened.

Therefore, in order to educate a good child, parents should add every stroke to his life, enrich every color and leave the least regret. Parents may wish to create a democratic family atmosphere for their children and let them have the right to speak in their own lives.

The common point of successful families with one-child education is that they have democratic education methods. Parents pay attention to self-cultivation and set an example, but fully respect and understand their children.

To do a good job in the education of the only child, parents should start with cultivating their children's interest in learning, so that children can develop their awareness of learning, cultivate their personality and form a healthy personality in a good and harmonious environment.