? What will you say when you invite your parents to school? Maybe because your child was talking in class, I slapped him with a book, so he scolded me. I am depressed and need my parents to appease me. My dignity has been trampled on, and I need students to apologize. My prestige among the students has also declined. I need your children to apologize to me in public to save my face and enhance my prestige in front of my classmates.

? If you are a parent, will you be angry when you hear these words? Will it be unkind to go back: it is wrong for students to talk in class. As teachers, they should criticize education, but is it appropriate for teachers to slap students with books? As an adult, it's too immature to get angry with children, isn't it? After all, he is a teacher and a model. Listen, no matter how angry your teacher is, in the eyes of parents, you have to bear it. Whether you like it or not, parents should kidnap teachers morally. Even if parents don't blame the teacher, they are secretly condescending. In this way, the teacher has neither face nor face.

? In this case, inviting parents to school will not only get their support, but also worsen the relationship between teachers and students and breed more problems.

? From the point of view of solving problems, the best way is for the scolded teacher to take the initiative to reconcile with the students. Speaking of this, many teachers will be unconvinced: so, isn't the teacher scolded by the students for nothing? Should teachers be scolded by students? Is there justice in this world? Teachers certainly can't be scolded by students! What teachers should do is to turn disadvantages into advantages, turn accidents into stories, and turn people who eat melons into their own hardcore fans. So, what does the teacher need to say to realize the leap and turn the situation around?

? First of all, directly find the abusive boy, whether he is happy or not, as long as he doesn't turn his head to cover his ears, the teacher can open his mouth and tell him, I hit you, you scold me, and we are even. Let's make up, shall we?

? Some teachers have a hard time, feel insulted by students, and take the initiative to seek reconciliation with students, which is so fall in price! It doesn't matter whether we are adults in falling prices or adults in falling prices. Adults don't take the initiative, can you expect minors to take the initiative? Who told us to choose to be teachers As long as you choose to be a teacher, you can't escape being scolded by students.

? Secondly, whether the boy is willing to reconcile or not, the teacher's attitude should tell everyone that I am willing to reconcile and I have forgiven him! My topic has been finished, and whether the other person's topic can start or not is the other person's business, I don't care!

? The teacher's attitude is so free and easy that he has won both momentum and public opinion. Even if the boys are not satisfied, they dare not attack easily.

? At this point, the teacher seized the favorable opportunity for further development and firmly grasped the hearts of the whole class emotionally. So how can we grasp the students' hearts?

? Only express emotions, not opinions!

? Students, I am a new teacher, and I have to admit that I am still a rookie in many ways. I want to do everything well, but it always backfires. Ask yourself, I like my job and I really like my students. I try my best to teach students better, perhaps because I am too impatient, so I am impatient when I encounter behaviors that interfere with my teaching in class, and I don't handle them properly, which leads some students to abuse me on the spot.

? As a female teacher, I have been held in the hands of my parents since I was a child. Don't scold me. I've never said anything ugly. When I was studying, my classmates liked me, and my teacher valued me very much. I have never been wronged. I didn't expect to be a teacher, but I was insulted by my most concerned students. My heart really hurts.

? I was scolded by my classmates in public. Am I angry? Very angry! Do I feel bad? It's hard! Am I embarrassed in front of my colleagues? It's humiliating!

? But, I am a teacher! I choose to be a teacher. It is my destiny to be scolded by students. I accept my fate! Since I have chosen the profession of teacher, I have to bear the troubles brought by this profession. I must improve my self-digestion and self-healing ability! I am an adult and have received professional training. I must reflect on my educational behavior.

? I admit that I lack rational spirit. When students interfered with my normal teaching, I hit a classmate. This behavior is really wrong! I promise that this kind of wrong educational behavior will not happen again in my future educational career. I am here to sincerely apologize to a classmate in front of all my classmates!

? A classmate, I am really wrong! Whether you accept it or not, I want to apologize.

? Express emotions, admit mistakes and apologize. The people who eat melons are both moved and admired, and they are bound to look at the teacher with new eyes. Pick up your lost face and clean it up yourself, which will not only harm your majesty, but also multiply your prestige and completely turn defeat into victory.

? The teacher bent down to admit his mistake and looked up to find his dignity. Next, the teacher should count the number of people and say in front of the whole class:

? Being abused by students, even if I am unhappy, I will never resent a professional classmate, but I will never accept his abusive behavior! One day, he figured it out and apologized to me, and I accepted it gladly. But if he can't figure it out and doesn't apologize to me, I won't be sad.

? From now on, I will try to cultivate myself and become a better teacher, but I also hope my classmates can abide by their duties as students. You may not like me, but you must respect me. This time, I mishandled it. I brewed my own bitter wine and drank it myself, but if a classmate scolds me for no reason in the future, I will be merciless! I am a teacher, shouldering the responsibility of teaching and educating people, but I will never teach on my knees!

? The teacher said this to hide the needle in cotton, aiming to tell the students: I was wrong and I am willing to pay the price! But if you trample on my dignity again, I'm not easy to mess with!

? Finally, I would like to remind young teachers in particular that no matter what the students do, they should not make arbitrary value judgments, scold with their mouths or even fan with their hands. Especially adolescent students, they all bring their own thunder. If you don't know the importance, trample on the boundaries of students and touch the taboos of students, it will easily lead to educational accidents on both sides.