Some parents give birth to children just to let them fulfill their unfinished wishes and want them to be what they wanted to be when they were young. Therefore, children will be constantly asked to do something according to their own ideas, but psychologists have never considered their inner thoughts.

We should let children live according to their own ideas, not let them live as they please. Don't always say "We are doing this for your future". Let children go step by step in the future, and parents should use knowledge to guide them.

Respect is to make children full of confidence in their own decisions and to make them believe that they have the ability to make correct judgments and choices. Respect means not to impose the requirements of adults on children, but to encourage children to express their views and believe that children have their own opinions.

Respect is very important for children. To respect children, we must promote their individualized development, develop their individuality and respect their psychological development. So, how can we respect children?

If you want children to have their own opinions and not blindly follow them in the future, you should give them the opportunity to stick to their own opinions and opinions when they are young. Even if it is wrong, as long as it is not a principled mistake, please give the child a chance to find and summarize it himself, not a rude denial. To tell the truth, the world is changing so fast that your valuable experience is probably out of date.

Answer your child's questions seriously. Don't take them lightly just because they are simple. Take them seriously.

Describe the promise your child made. Don't just talk without practice. Just say it, and you must do it. Children should say thank you when they do things for their parents, and parents should be polite when they get along with their children.

When talking to children, you should look them in the eyes, don't stop them from talking casually, ask for their opinions, encourage them to put forward their own opinions and express them boldly.

Respect children's different opinions and objections, solve problems with children in a negotiated tone, value and care for children's works, do not dispose of children's works at will, do not force children to reveal secrets, and do not rummage through children's things.

Respect children's hobbies and choices of activities, and let children solve their own disputes with their peers.

Do not answer the guest's questions instead of the children, save face for the children in front of outsiders, apologize to the children when the parents are wrong, and sincerely say sorry to the children.

Don't say anything that hurts self-esteem when criticizing children. Give the child a chance to explain, and don't make negative assertions about the child, such as "stupid child" and "you are a bad child".

We should respect children's temperament, don't force them to do things they can't do, and don't expect too much from them.