Many parents are looking for ways to deal with their children's behavior problems. I think many methods are tricks. Actually, the most important thing is the emotional connection between parents and children. I saw some parents say that children can twist, but they can't obey. In fact, I think it is often because parents have not entered the inner world of their children, and the appearance caused by deep-seated reasons is attributed to "disobedience."
Only by finding the answer to the overall problem and considering it in the long run can we solve the short-term problem. Just as you want your child to learn to respect you, you should first respect your child and treat him as an independent individual. Then he naturally learned how to respect others in his interaction with you.
Any attempt to control children's behavior by reprimanding or threatening punishment will fail, which may achieve short-term results, but it will bring more long-term negative problems. Children can't learn the skills that adults want them to learn when they are not respected, tolerated, sad and angry.
Adults who were once regarded as guardians and benefactors of all mankind should be prosecuted. Since almost all adults play the role of mother, father or guardian of children, this means that they should all be charged. The whole society, which has an unshirkable responsibility for children, should also be tried. This shocking accusation can actually wake us up. It is as mysterious and awesome as God's last judgment: "How did you treat the children I entrusted to you?"