Recently, netizens broke the news that an old man asked a child sitting alone in his seat to give up his seat. He said to the children, "You have to let me go. I am an old man." He said that he also took out his old-age card, and the child had to give up his seat to the old man! The child is ill, has a bad cold, has been coughing, and has been silent. Then the old man looked at the child and was aggressive to the child, not giving up his seat. At that time, my mother was scared by the abuse of the old man and said that she would get off! As soon as the old man heard it, he said, get out of the car quickly, and people like you who don't know how to respect the old man get out of the car quickly. Why do old people think it is so natural to be abandoned? The reason is that we are used to taking the virtue of giving up our seat as everyone's obligation and courtesy, while ignoring the fact that giving up our seat is everyone's right. In this special situation, we don't want our children to be rude and caring people, nor do we want them to resist their discomfort and give up their seats. Then how to educate children to give up their seats? To put it simply: do what you can, explain the reasons, solicit opinions, praise immediately, objectively evaluate the feasibility of giving up your seat, explain the reasons for giving up your seat to your child, and let the child decide whether to give up his seat. If the child gives up his seat, please praise the child for giving up his seat; If you don't give up your seat, don't criticize the child and tell him it's his right. Giving up your seat is a virtue, but it has nothing to do with obligation and politeness, and it has nothing to do with right and wrong.