1, parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige.
A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children.
2. Pay attention to parenting education.
Children are very concerned about whether their parents have made great efforts for their growth. Although some parents are with their children all the year round, they don't always communicate with each other. Most parents neglect parenting education on the grounds of being busy.
Parents' parenting education should be ahead of their children's physical and mental development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education, keep learning and improve their ability to educate their children, so as to win their respect and love.
3. Create a good knowledge environment.
Children should have a good small environment for learning, not for luxury, but for atmosphere. When studying, students should avoid unnecessary family chats and friends gatherings. And try to tolerate their shortcomings. Look at children with a magnifying glass, knowing that there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings.
Parents' trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children, but don't let them deceive themselves.
4. Praise more and criticize less
Appropriate praise is the lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind. However, praise should be measured and not too extreme.