Therefore, sex education is very necessary, and the sooner the better. Maybe some parents will say that my child is still young, only 3 years old, and there is no need for sex education. I don't know that when children are about 2 years old, they will form the initial gender consciousness, and they will be divided into two categories: boys and girls. By the time he was 3 years old, he could imitate different roles such as mom and dad to play house. At this time, you can show him sex education picture books.
A few days ago, her 4-year-old daughter's kindergarten teacher sent them a video to watch. She also asked to draw a circle of love after watching the video, which is her own understanding after watching it. The daughter said that she wanted to protect her privacy and no one else could touch it. I sigh that kindergarten education keeps pace with the times, and I agree with it very much.
More and more data show that sexual assault cases are getting younger and more common. Ma, a psychologist, said: "We underestimated the sexual maturity of teenagers and always thought that they would not fall in love until they were seventeen or eighteen, but the situation at that time was that primary school students had already shown signs."
Therefore, in order for children to form a good sense of self-protection and good interpersonal relationships, sex education must be carried out as soon as possible.
How to conduct sex education?
Children's sex education should be the joint education of schools, parents and society, and only by taking a three-pronged approach can we be in an invincible position. Children around 3 years old don't have a good command of words, so it's a good choice to read the series of oriental children's sex education picture books, which vividly show the contents of sex education that parents dare not talk about, and are the first books for children's sex education.
Schools can set up some lectures, questions and answers, role-playing games and information collection boxes to answer teenagers' confusion about sexual knowledge.
For some educational institutions in the society, we can set up various forms of summer camps and winter camps, so that children can have fun in schools and middle schools, make education entertaining, make children happy, reassure parents and let children spend their childhood easily.
In short, through the three-pronged sex education of parents, schools and society, children can be better helped to have the thinking of "red", "yellow" and "green" lights on their body parts. Green light means normal physical contact, such as shaking hands, and yellow light means hugging and holding hands between relatives and friends. The red light is your private parts. Only when you can touch it can you form a good sense of self-protection.
Misunderstanding of sex education
Many parents think that sex education is to make children better prevent sexual assault, but this understanding is very one-sided.
First of all, children can face themselves better. In fact, it can let children know all stages of their body well, and let them know more about self-esteem, self-love and self-protection.
Secondly, it is conducive to the development of interpersonal relationships. If you are embarrassed or embarrassed to say something, tell it to the other person, such as menarche, acne on your face, enlarged chest, erectile penis, hairy armpits and body odor, which shows that she trusts each other very much and the relationship between them will be very close. Like many adolescents, he has a lot to say to his parents, but he will talk to his good friends. That's the reason.
Therefore, we can't simply think that sex education is to prevent sexual abuse, and it is also the key to the development of self-awareness and good interpersonal relationships.
Finally, I very much agree that sex education should be included in children's compulsory courses, because without early education, sexual assault will not make your children too young. Children are the flowers and future of the motherland, and their healthy growth needs the common care of our parents, schools and society. Therefore, please push away the inexplicable power that stands in front of us, be ashamed of sex education, reduce and avoid unnecessary harm to society, and give children a healthy and happy childhood!