Parents who adopt this method are dominant in their children's education, and everything of their children is controlled by their parents. Children who grow up in this environment often become passive, passive, dependent, obedient, weak, lack initiative in doing things, and even form dishonest personality characteristics.
Step 2 indulge:
Parents who adopt this method often spoil their children too much and let them do what they want. Sometimes they lose control of their children's education. Children who grow up in this family environment are often willful, naive, selfish, barbaric, rude, independent, arrogant, rude and absurd.
3. Democracy:
Parents and children live in an equal and harmonious family atmosphere. Parents respect their children and give them certain autonomy and positive and correct guidance. Parents' educational model enables children to form some positive personality qualities, such as liveliness, happiness, frankness, independence, politeness, good communication, cooperative spirit and active thinking.
4. Ignore the type:
Parents don't care much about their children. They will not make demands on their children, nor will they control their behavior. They also failed to show their love and expectation for their children. For children, they usually only provide materials such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, and do not provide emotional support. Children who grow up in this way are prone to adaptation obstacles, and their self-adaptation and control abilities are often poor.
Extended data:
1, let children know that self-control is a sign of maturity: a mature person is a person who can easily control himself and prevent himself from making mistakes. Confucius believes that "seventy years to do whatever you want" is the highest realm of life.
2. Let children learn to focus on lofty goals.
3. Cultivate children's firm will: let children stand firm and correct, learn to resist the temptation of the outside world, and don't lose yourself in a colorful world.
4. Cultivate children's gentle personality: educate children not to think only of themselves, but to think of themselves from the perspective of others and treat people around them gently.
5. Let your child gradually learn to evaluate himself: Let your child judge his behavior with the concepts of "yes" and "no" he teaches, so that he will consciously use these concepts to restrain himself from doing things he shouldn't do.
6. Let children learn to be patient: the main performance of people who lack self-control is that they can't control their emotions. It is easy to get excited and angry, which will leave a bad impression on others and hurt interpersonal relationships.
7. Let the children learn to calmly analyze: When the children encounter problems, let the children learn to constantly analyze the interests of all aspects of the filament, and then make their own decisions, so that the children can stay calm and not panic when they are in trouble.
References:
Baidu Encyclopedia-Family Education Style