Abuse of children is an incompetent education, which sometimes hurts children. Parents use these three methods more effectively. When children make mistakes, parents' violent punishment is not the best way to educate them. Communicate with children patiently, point out mistakes and correct them in time. In most cases, children are unconvinced, unwilling and unwilling to listen, not because what we said is wrong, but because we don't really understand the children's detailed thoughts.
How to educate children correctly as parents and teachers? If you think that your child has made a mistake, or is not sensible or obedient, you should start from the perspective of guiding education, starting from actual cases, daily life and current situation. Even if it's not pleasant, you should calmly lower your posture and voice. On the basis of respecting and understanding children, you should find out the confusion, troubles and grievances in your heart, so that children can feel empathy and warmth.
Beating and scolding education is the most incompetent, which is related to the image, quality, prestige and level of parents among children, and directly determines the children's recognition of parents. The consequences and harm of beating and cursing education: first, let children feel that their parents are uneducated and uneducated, and there is no other way to beat and scold. The second is to make children feel that parents are uneducated, uneducated and educated, which should not be the image. The third is to make children feel that their parents are not really in love with them. True love should not be this attitude, but consideration. The fourth is to let children have a sense of distance from their parents, and this sense of distance will be farther and farther away, which will dilute their affection and feelings.
Every parent has a wish that his son becomes a dragon and his daughter becomes a phoenix. He wants his children to have the advantages of all children in the world. Especially when children are in disorder in the learning stage, parents' hatred of iron will surface and become more intense. But we must pay attention to methods and educate our children in a proper way.