Education has never been easy, even a little unrequited love. Since when, there has been a strange phenomenon in the field of education: more and more parents advocate happy education and think that children's nature should be released. Parents oppose harshness and criticism and insist on letting their children grow naturally. However, will those children who enjoy "happy education" really grow up according to their parents' expectations? Qian Wenzhong, a professor at Fudan University, once said: "Today's education is to accommodate children and give them more time for entertainment and play, but how can there be such education in the world?

"Education has never been an easy task. Even a little rude and cruel. If we don't pay attention to children's education now, children may work hard all their lives. As Mr. Zeng Guofan said: "If you can't bear to let your child suffer, don't blame him for being a loser. "Too loving parents can't control their children; A soft-hearted teacher can't control his students. Happy education, releasing children's nature, is the biggest deception in education and the distortion of children's growth.

Parents who win the teacher are likely to lose their children. An old teacher who has been teaching for 20 years once said: "The attitude of parents determines the degree to which teachers attach importance to students." He told a story that a student in his class was a little naughty and often made some small moves in class, which once seriously affected classroom discipline. He criticized the students and stood for 20 minutes. Unexpectedly, the students took out their mobile phones from their schoolbags and called their parents. Instead of educating their children, parents reasoned with him and said that he had done something wrong and hurt them. If they insist on punishing their children, they will complain to the headmaster. Then he turned a blind eye to the student and his grades plummeted.

Please understand that teachers' painstaking education needs rigorous and firm strength, and everyone needs it! Children think the teacher is too strict and doesn't like classes. In fact, teachers can understand. However, if the teacher is not strict, how can children become talents? With the passion of love? Compliment against one's heart or connivance without a bottom line ... If the teacher is not strict and lets the children do whatever they want, then the children will only learn worse and worse. A teacher who turns a blind eye to children's mistakes and studies is by no means a good teacher. A good teacher should not be too gentle. Education is a serious undertaking. As teachers, we must be strict with our children. This is our responsibility. As the saying goes, "a teacher who is lax in teaching is lazy." Strictness is another kind of love education. Only by being strict with teachers can you become an excellent student.