The reason why strict education is popular is: 1. These parents have been strictly educated since childhood. Their subconscious has become accustomed to this kind of education. Although they didn't like this kind of education when they were children, and they didn't like being treated severely, it is obvious that this kind of education has quick results. Parents are eager to draw a line with their children in order to escape the pain of childhood. The experience of being severely disciplined in childhood made these parents extremely painful when they were young. As they grow up, this kind of pain is suppressed to the subconscious, as if they have forgotten these experiences. Parents' painful memories will be activated immediately when their children have the conditions of childhood. No one wants to bear heartbreak, so parents will immediately criticize their children, yell at them and demand a lot from them. 3. Anger can make people feel powerful and guilty. Looking back, many parents who yell at their children often say, "I don't want to yell at my children. I really can't help it." 4. The influence of society on stress. Strict education is a popular way of education in society. Many parents see that other people's parents are strict and feel that they are not strict, just like irresponsible parents.
Education is like this. There has never been such a universally applicable standard answer as "tiger parents education 1=2". Some children can have dutiful sons under sticks. However, some children may breed rebellious psychology under the jealousy of their parents, resulting in psychological shadows that may accompany them for life. In fact, every child has his own psychological bottom line and the limit of stress tolerance. What parents need to do is to know their children as much as possible and exercise their right to education on the basis of respecting the law of their individual growth. They can't encourage others, nor can they blindly copy the educational methods of tiger mother and wolf father.