Parents spoil their children too much and do everything for them, which will directly lead to their inability to handle anything. Once they encounter problems in life, they will want to find their parents to solve them at the first time and lose their ability to solve problems. Therefore, in the process of educating their children, parents should never spoil their children too much and help them solve problems as soon as they encounter something, which will only make them rely too much on themselves. In this way, children will not be able to have their own independent thinking ability when they grow up, which will easily lead to children being affected in their later lives and lacking the ability to do things in the process of getting along with others.

In the process of children's growth, parents should learn to let go appropriately, because as children grow older, their ability to handle things will be enhanced. In reality, there are some mothers and daughters, just because their parents were too fond of them when they were young, and they were afraid that their children would be hurt by others or encounter other things that they could not solve. Therefore, when they grow up, they have to listen to their parents and have no opinions of their own. Such people have no ability to think independently.

Therefore, although it is important for parents to care about their children, they should listen to their thoughts and feelings during their growth, never impose their wishes and thoughts on them, and never use their abilities to help them solve problems and things. Children must cultivate their ability to solve problems, so that they can better integrate into society when they grow up. When children work, they need children to face complex interpersonal relationships and improvise. Once children lose this ability because of their parents' doting, I believe that as parents, they will feel very sorry and sad.