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How to treat Ying Da and Liang Huan's "divorce" to train their sons to live apart all the year round?
200 1 Yingda and his wife Liang Huan had a conflict to support their son. Liang Huan is bent on training his 3-year-old son Ying Ruyong as a pianist. When her son was two, she sent him to receive systematic piano training. Ying Da is bent on guiding his son to the road of ice hockey. Ying Da fell in love with ice hockey when he was studying in the United States. In his view, ice hockey is the sport that can best reflect male masculinity. In order to cultivate his son's interest in ice hockey, whenever there is a game in Beijing, he takes his son to watch it.

Ying Da's idea was opposed by his wife, who listed a series of objections: playing ice hockey is bitter and tiring, but it is still unpopular; Besides, coaches and equipment for learning ice hockey are also expensive? Neither of them can convince the other. As a last resort, Ying Da had to put this matter aside for the time being.

In 2002, Ying Ruyong was 4 years old. In the United States, many children started playing ice hockey at the age of 3, and Ying Da lost his cool. In July this year, Ying Da paid the training fee for his son without telling Liang Huan, and sent Ying Ruyong to a children's club in Beijing for systematic ice hockey training. I also spent 1000 yuan to buy my son helmets, masks, roller skates, clubs and other equipment. A few days later, when Liang Huan bathed her son, she found his body was black and blue. Only then did she know that her husband had not told her what she had done. Liang Huan warned Ying Da: Stop practicing ice hockey, son, or I won't stop being with you! ?

Two days later, it was time for my son to train again. Ying Da picked up his equipment and led his son out. Liang Huan was blocked at the door, and Ying Da grabbed his son and made a dash for the door.

Liang Huan came to his mother's house and told Chen Rong about his disagreement with Ying Da. Chen Rong is a famous female writer, who is famous in the literary world for "Man to Middle Age". She communicated with her son-in-law: If dysprosium is only over 4 years old, don't plan the future for her children so early. In my opinion, if RuYong likes both ice hockey and piano, let him learn both. Don't stick to your own opinions, you should observe your child's interests and see what he really likes, and it's not too late to focus on training. ?

Ying Da realized that he was too eager to raise his son and didn't care about his wife's feelings. Yes, how can children's best interests be explored without trying a few projects? After communication, the couple finally reached an agreement: ice hockey is highly antagonistic, and training clothes, helmets and masks are relatively heavy, requiring athletes to have a strong body. Therefore, before Ying Ruyong was 6 years old, he was only allowed to practice as a hobby. After the age of 6, if he is really talented, he is allowed to receive professional ice hockey training.

In order to make his son strong, Liang Huan learned to cook with TV. Ying Da takes his son swimming, jogging and playing football. In a blink of an eye, my son will be 6 years old. Many coaches believe that Ying Ruyong has really demonstrated his ice hockey talent. Liang Huan asked his son: Playing ice hockey is hard and tiring, and it is easy to get hurt. Why don't we practice the piano? ? Answer:? Mom, I won't pester you for lucky money or new clothes in the future, as long as you let me play ice hockey. ?

Ice hockey is an aristocratic sport, and it is expensive. Ying Da and his wife had a division of labor, and Liang Huan was responsible for sending his son to practice ice hockey, taking care of his son's diet and daily life, and tutoring his son's cultural class. Ying Da is responsible for all family expenses and provides financial support for his son to play ice hockey.

Ying Da was born in Gao Qian, and his father Ying Ruocheng is the Vice Minister of Culture. From childhood to adulthood, he lived a leisurely life. In the past, Ying Da only hosted several programs selectively on some TV stations in Beijing. Now, in order to cope with the sudden increase in economic burden, he has to often go to other places to host programs and perform in caves.

In order to relieve her husband's pressure, Liang Huanmeng had the idea of returning to his old job. Liang Huan is a famous talented woman. After graduating from the Chinese Department of Peking University, she successfully created well-known sitcoms such as I Love My Family and Sister Ma. After learning that Liang Huan was going to return to the Jianghu, a famous director immediately found Liang Huan, hoping to cooperate in a chronological drama. Ying Da and his wife discussed: Since our son has a talent for ice hockey, don't write any scripts, but take care of him wholeheartedly. Let's twist our husband and wife into a rope and raise our son well. ?

Liang Huanhong answered her husband with red eyes. You are too tired to earn money to support your family by yourself! Every time I see you come home exhausted, I feel sad. ? Ying Da said? I am a man, and this is what I should bear. It's hard for you to take care of dysprosium at home. By taking good care of your son and family, you have lightened my burden. ?

In March 2007, Ying Ruyong's Beijing Amateur Children's Ice Hockey Club? Tiger? A friendly match was played with the visiting Canadian team. In the game, the son, who was the captain, rushed left and right, leading his teammates to a complete victory. Mr. and Mrs. Ying Da were in tears.

June, 5438+October, 2009 10, the Boston Bears of NHI League officially sent an invitation to Ying Ruyong, hoping that he could join the team's youth team. No player from China has joined in NHL history! Ying Da and Liang Huan naturally welcome their sons to go abroad for development. Considering that 1 1 year-old son needs someone to take care of him when he lives abroad, the couple decided to let Liang Huan go to the United States to accompany his son after discussion.

Soon, Mr. and Mrs. Ying Da took their son across the ocean and came to Chicago. After settling down his wife and children, Ying Da returned to Beijing. After coming to the United States, Ying Ruyong immediately threw himself into intense training and competitions, and Liang Huan took care of his son's diet and daily life. Soon, five other children of the Beijing Tigers also came to Chicago for training. In order to save living expenses, Liang Huan rented a suite with his son and five other children. A few months later, when Ying Da flew to Chicago to visit his wife and children, he saw that the apartment was full of iron beds, and it was easy to bump into people if he was not careful. Liang Huan and his son are very tired because of long-term bad sleep.

After returning to Beijing, Ying Da took out all his family savings, raised hundreds of thousands of yuan from his friends and bought a small house in Chicago. In order to earn money and pay off debts, Ying Da not only acted as a host, but also played a role in some TV dramas. In just over a year, he played a role in nearly 10 TV series such as Beautiful Things, A Dream of Red Mansions, Wind, Quitting Smoking and Drinking.

On the other side of the ocean, it is not much easier for Liang Huan to take care of his son than for Ying Da. Son's homework, training, competition, daily life, every little thing to worry about. At first, white children in Chicago looked down on young players who went to China. Liang Huan encouraged his son to live up to China's expectations and study hard.

Because the residence is far away from the training hall, Liang Huan took a driver's license in other places, bought a used car and picked up his son every day. Because the traffic rules in the United States are different from those in China, Liang Huan repeatedly violated the traffic rules while driving and was chased and punished by the police.

At the end of July, 2065438+00, Yao Ming, who was playing the NBA regular season in Chicago, specially came to visit Ying Ruyong. The contemporary China basketball superstar humorously and sincerely encouraged Ying Ruyong to say: Practice hard, you have a bright future, and you can definitely become a hockey player, right? Yao Ming? , shining the world ice altar. ?

20 1 1 June, in the ranking of young ice hockey players in North America, 13-year-old Ying Ruyong jumped to the forefront with his comprehensive quality and competition results! Chicago Blackhawk, Detroit and many other well-known ice hockey clubs in North America all say: As long as Ying Ruyong keeps this score to 18 years old, we are willing to sign a contract with him at a high membership fee. ? Liang Huan's dedication to her son also won the respect of the local ice hockey community and awarded it to her? Ice hockey mom? Title.

In 20 16, Ying Ruyong played professionally for Toronto Patriots of Ontario Youth League in Canada, and also participated in major competitions at home and abroad on behalf of Beijing Team and China Youth Team. Liang Huan stayed in Canada with his son, separated from Ying Da all the year round, and suffered a lot. Due to the long-term separation, many people think that Ying Da and Liang Huan are divorced, and they intend to introduce him to someone. Every time Ying Da explained for a while, he took out a family photo to prove it.

In order to achieve good results in the Beijing Winter Olympics, the China ice hockey team returned to China to practice ice hockey at the invitation of relevant departments. Now, Ying Ruyong is training hard, and Mr. and Mrs. Ying Da provide him with all logistical support to win glory for our country in the Winter Olympics!