1) Parents should set an example. Many times, we often hear parents say at school, "Children don't read books at home at all, and they don't want to read them anyway." Then by the way, as a parent, did you study at home? How can children read when you are watching TV? "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is extremely inappropriate to ask children what they simply can't do.
2) Parents should kneel down to take care of their children. We adults tend to look at children from an adult's perspective and understand children with an adult's mentality, but this idea is often incompatible with children. In normal life, if you think from the child's point of view, you will be more considerate and understand the child. A parent who can get along with children must be a good parent, because you know their thoughts.
3) Be a guide for children, and parents should not be reminders for children. We often see parents paving the way for their children to become "dragons" or "phoenixes" in their hearts, but they often don't think about what their children want. Children have children's ideas and adults have adults' views, but parents should give their children some space and time instead of thinking from their own perspective. "Tiger parents" do exist, but they are extremely rare.
Parents are advised not to consider themselves "selfless", but to restrain their children with personal "selfishness". Children deserve a free sky, and only by letting them fly can they be happy. Without the bondage of freedom, it is actually a kind of strangulation and destruction.