What should I do if my child's rebellion is particularly serious? ? 1, find the reason, "suit the remedy to the case". Although treason is a psychological phenomenon that every child will inevitably experience in the process of growing up, the reasons, characteristics and degree of treason will be different because of the different environment in which each child grows up. For example, some children's rebellion is more hidden, and some are more exposed; Children resist different objects, some against their parents, some mainly against their teachers, and some against their classmates; In addition, the content of children's rebellion is different ... In short, parents should fully understand their children's rebellious personality characteristics in order to prescribe the right medicine.
? Parents should give their children equal status and give them respect and trust. Children's "rebellious" heart is often the closed door of parents. To solve children's problems, the premise is that children should sit face to face with their parents happily, and be willing to listen to their parents and talk.
? 3. Respect the rebellion of adolescent children. If you let them develop themselves and give them enough room for independent growth, their rebellious behavior will often decrease. As parents, facing the rebellious children in adolescence. You can't let them go, and you can't control everything, but you have to keep the bottom line. Children's reasonable opinions and suggestions should be affirmed and encouraged. Give children a chance to fully express their opinions. No matter right or wrong, don't interrupt or refute, be a loyal listener.
? 4, children's misunderstanding, try to analyze and demonstrate from both theory and practice. It is best to argue through people, things and words that have certain prestige in children's minds. Parents should try to avoid looking at problems from their own perspective. Let children ask themselves, "What's the point of doing this?" ?
? Parents should not always compare other children. This will not only hurt children's self-confidence, but also hurt their hearts.
? 6. Let the children experience and bear the consequences. It is said that you can really feel it only if you have experienced it yourself. So is the rebellious education of children. Taking my daughter to sleep, junior high school, it is difficult to get up almost every morning. My wife and I failed to persuade many times and chose to let go. As a result, I was late for school and was criticized by the teacher. Then there was nothing like it. Some things must be experienced by children themselves, and they can only feel it after they have experienced it. Mistakes can be made. Only when they have experienced it can they really suffer and correct it.
? 7. The child enters a rebellious period. As parents, we should not only tolerate children, but also constantly reflect on our own educational methods, grow up with children, make friends with children happily, and strive to be like children. With the growth of age, I communicate with them and get along well.