Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena and their psychological functions and behavioral activities under their influence, taking into account outstanding theories and applications. Below I bring you 12 classic books on children's educational psychology. I hope you like it!
1, intimacy:
Babies like warm intimacy very much. Kissing their mother, clapping their hands with their friends and holding their favorite toys are all intimate expressions. Let's feel the intimacy and trust brought by intimacy.
2. The birth of the baby:
Babies may often want to know how they came into this world, so use this book to read him beautiful stories about their birth.
3. Family:
There are more than 6 billion people in the world, and there are about 10 billion families. Every child has his own family, but there are many complicated family relationships that we don't know, so we need to know our family tree and find our own position through books.
4. Sadness:
Everyone is in a bad mood and may be very sad. They don't want to play, laugh, cry or ruin. This book faces the psychological activities and conditions of children when they are angry, and guides them to correctly channel their sadness.
5. fear:
All kinds of people have all kinds of fears. But it is always unpleasant to be afraid of this feeling. This book starts with all aspects of children's fearful lives and encourages them to face and overcome their fears bravely.
6. Anger:
In fact, for angry people, anger is also very painful, but anger also helps to understand more positive effects. This book guides children to learn to treat anger correctly and calm it down.
7. shame:
Shame is a word that children often don't understand. Children often feel that kind of bad mood in their daily lives, but they don't know that it is a feeling of shame. This book tells the various states and feelings of shame, and provides guidance and methods for children to get rid of this feeling.
8. "swearing":
Polite language is commonly used in our daily communication, but sometimes we will encounter foul language. Children often have different reactions and influences when facing them. Through examples and analysis, this book skillfully guides children how to treat swearing correctly in a calm tone.
9. "Violence will hurt people": Everyone will have a certain degree of violence. Although it is usually unintentional, children will inevitably come into contact with violence in their lives. This book has instructive suggestions for children to learn to understand violence correctly.
10, "Say No":
Children will gradually have their own ideas and opinions when they grow up. At this time, they may say "no" to adults! This is a necessary step in the growth process, so parents need to listen to the baby's voice and help the baby grow up more smoothly and healthily.
1 1 fairness and unfairness:
There are many unfair things in the world, and everyone has a different understanding of fairness. This book teaches children to understand fairness correctly and treat fairness with a positive attitude.
12, death:
All living things will die, and death is a normal and mysterious thing. This book makes children understand the concept of death and how to treat the mentality of death correctly.
This series of picture books vividly describes the baby's daily life and experience with scientific language and friendly tone, interprets and interprets various psychological states and emotional characteristics of the baby in the process of growing up, and expounds the themes closely related to the baby's psychological growth, thus guiding the mother to understand the baby and helping the baby to establish a good and healthy psychological quality, which has strong reality. It was rated as a "classic of good psychological education for children" by authoritative organizations.
13, other excellent children's psychology books recommended:
1. The psychology of different children
Recommended reason: Wang Jia, the author of this book, is not only a careful and wise professional mother, but also an educator with many years of family education research and consulting work. Through careful observation of life and personal contact with children, she tells us in real and delicate words with the unique style of "telling the truth easily and clearly": in the process of educating children, every parent should try to explore some "psychological laws" and learn about them every day. The seven thematic frameworks of this book, including personality psychology, habit psychology, communication psychology, growth psychology, social psychology, emotional psychology and learning psychology, will help you gain insight into children's psychology and give their teachers practical and effective guidance. There are not only unique educational ideas in the book, but also feasible educational wisdom, and the most important thing is ubiquitous love.
2. Reading children: a collection of psychologists' practical godsons (6- 12 years old).
Recommended reason: Bian, author of this book, professor and doctoral supervisor of the State Key Laboratory of Cognitive Neuroscience and Learning of Beijing Normal University, and director of the Institute of Mental Health and Education of Beijing Normal University. This book comprehensively introduces the growth characteristics, development rules and corresponding parenting strategies of children aged 6- 12, covering the issues that parents are most concerned about and eager to know. For example, how to understand childhood children, how to help adolescent children grow up happily, how to communicate with parents well, and how to promote children's efficient learning.
3. The formation and cultivation of children's personality
Author: [Austrian] alfred adler
Publishing House: Peking University Publishing House
Many people know Adler through his masterpiece Inferiority and Transcendence, but his book on children's personality formation deserves more attention from parents who care about children's personality formation.
Adler published "Human Organ Defects and Psychological Compensation" at the age of 37, suggesting that human physiological defects will bring inferiority complex, and if inferiority complex cannot be compensated, it will lead to mental illness. On this basis, he founded individual psychology.
Every parent will encounter all kinds of problems when raising children. Children are shy, withdrawn, tired of learning, hyperactive, and troublesome ... How these problems are formed will inevitably bother parents. Adler made a detailed psychological analysis of these problems in this book. Adler believes that in the process of children's growth, parents must clearly realize that it is most important to cultivate their independence, self-confidence, fearlessness and cooperation with others. Learning knowledge is far less important than learning how to survive. Learning to survive should focus on perfecting children's sound personality.
Adler believes that cultivating children's sound personality in the right way is the primary purpose of children's education, and accumulating knowledge and improving IQ are the details of children's education. In order to guide children's sound personality development reasonably, we need to understand the characteristics of children's personality development. What role does the child's nature and heredity play in the child's growth, and has the child's character begun to form in early childhood? All these contents are given by Adler in this book. Every parent who cares about their children's integrity should get enough experience and wisdom from Adler's books.
4. The secret of childhood
Author: [Italy] Maria Montessori
Publishing House: People's Education Publishing House
The educational methods and ideas of Italian educator Montessori have been widely accepted in China, and many parents take Montessori's educational methods as the standard. They hope that their children can get a good education and a free growth environment under the guidance of Montessori's educational spirit. Then, it is very necessary for these parents to read Montessori's masterpiece "The Secret of Childhood" about children's growth.
Montessori education advocates taking children as the center, and children should be regarded as independent individuals different from adults. Advocate life training, cultivate children's active learning ability and improve their personality; Emphasis is placed on grasping the sensitive period of children's growth, and with the help of the psychological characteristics of children in the sensitive period, the maximum learning effect can be achieved. Montessori believes that cultivating children's personality is the most important content of children's education, and the biggest purpose of children's growth is to help them become normal and ordinary children.
Montessori's views and propositions are not only based on logical deduction, but also on the observation and research of children's inner growth. The secret of childhood is her research experience.
Opening this book is an attempt to open the treasure house of children's childhood secrets. Montessori told parents that children's growth has internal driving forces and laws. Children's growth should not be the constant discipline led by parents, but should be guided to grow independently through their own independent exploration.
In order to guide children's growth, adults should provide them with a safe environment full of love, respect and understand their daily behavior, limit and guide their actions as little as possible, and let them grow up independently and educate themselves.
In order to convince more parents to agree with this idea, Montessori analyzed the characteristics and mysteries of children's growth in detail in the book. Because she is proficient in medicine, philosophy, pedagogy, experimental psychology and anthropology, she has been able to obtain various theoretical and knowledge resources and fully understand the mystery of children's growth.
How many secrets are hidden in children's hearts, what their nature is, what psychological changes they are experiencing during the sensitive period of psychological growth, and what are the characteristics of children's intellectual development and the establishment of their inner world. Montessori told his parents that if adults don't have enough self-awareness about their children's upbringing, it is likely to become an obstacle to their growth. In daily life, our constraints on children's behavior may potentially affect their growth.
How to make children have a healthy personality, we need to carefully understand the growth characteristics of children at different stages of life, and then give them space and trust. More importantly, parents need to learn from their children. Montessori put forward a philosophical but seemingly contradictory view in the book: "Children are the father of adults." She used this view to constantly remind parents that we need to find a more suitable position in the relationship with our children and give them enough trust and room for growth.
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