Author: Mr. Philosophy

Source: Philosophical Life Network (id: zxrsnet)

Don't blame others for being too young, don't send others for personal gain, and don't leak people's old evils.

The former Soviet educator Suhomlinski once said:

"In the garden of human mind, the simplest, most beautiful and most ordinary flower is human education."

Then what is upbringing?

Education is the cultivation of a person's culture and morality, a rule for a person from primary school, and a respectful attitude towards others.

Feng Yiyin said in "Recalling Father Feng Zikai":

"Born to raise, raise and teach. Education is the best gift that a family can pass on to children. "

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Education is education and cultivation.

Education is education and cultivation, and it is the norm of cultural inheritance and acquired learning.

A person's education is not innate, but the acquired learning and education and the good quality and behavior habits formed by the whole atmosphere, which are the virtues precipitated by life experience and practice.

We are born with a blank sheet of paper, and we spend the rest of our lives doodling by ourselves. A person's education is cultivated by his own learning and norms.

Everyone says that parents are children's first teachers and families are the cradle of children's growth.

Family environment is the basic factor of children's healthy growth, and parents' behavior affects children's upbringing.

In St. Amethyst, it is said that it is the father's fault to raise and not teach; Teaching is lax and teachers are lazy. If people are uneducated, it is the incompetence of parents and teachers.

"In the past, Meng Mu chose neighboring countries" just to keep children away from those bad factors and create a good educational environment for them.

Mr. Hu Shi once recalled his mother and said, "If I learn a little good temper, if I learn a little kindness to others, if I can forgive and understand-I have to thank my loving mother."

It can be seen that family atmosphere and parents' conduct and behavior will gradually penetrate into children's conduct and education in life.

British chesterfield said:

"The so-called good upbringing, they are different in almost all countries and even in one region; Anyone who is sensible will imitate the good upbringing of his place and be in line with it. "

As the saying goes: "jade is not cut, it is not a tool; People don't learn, they don't know righteousness. "

Learn to distinguish right from wrong, learn to be a noble person, learn to be an educated person, learn to correct yourself, stand on the world and treat others.

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Education is a heartfelt cultural accomplishment.

Dmitry Likhachev said in On Education: "A good education comes not only from family and school, but also from oneself."

But the premise is that we must understand what real education is.

Academic qualifications come from the heart, which is the internal quality of the growth environment, educational foundation and own experience.

Whether a person is educated or not is not only polite in behavior, but also pays attention to his cultural connotation and moral cultivation.

Among them, culture not only refers to cultural knowledge, but also is a kind of consciousness combined with behavior habits and spiritual values.

Writer Liang said: "culture is rooted in inner cultivation and does not need conscious reminder;" Freedom based on constraints; Be good to others. "

On one occasion, Lenin met a female worker carrying a basin upstairs on his way downstairs. When the female worker saw that it was Lenin, she hurried to make way for Lenin.

Lenin made a noise to stop, and leaned against the wall to let the women workers pass first. At the same time, he said, "You don't have to do this. You have a basin in your hand and my hands are empty. Please go first! "

Lenin spoke enthusiastically and the word "please" was loud and clear.

He didn't go downstairs until the female worker went upstairs.

This is a daily trifle, but it shows the greatness of his inner quality. He is not arrogant and rude because of his high position, but kind enough to give convenience to others.

Cultural literacy is a kind of temperament that emanates from the inside out, and it is an invisible force that emanates from self-cognition, self-education, self-learning and precipitation to a certain extent.

Whether a person has a culture or not does not depend on his academic qualifications, but on whether he has this kind of intangible temperament.

People with cultural accomplishment can always find beauty and hope in things and are full of great yearning for a bright future.

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Education is different from politeness, but it depends on it.

Education, from the heart, is a comprehensive internal quality that has been trained and standardized over time, and it is a behavior habit in communication with people.

Politeness, an external behavior, is a polite behavior that can be pretended under imitation and deliberate, not necessarily from the heart.

Educated people are always polite.

A polite person is not necessarily an educated person.

A person can't have both. Such people have no culture and can only be called "hypocrites".

People with sharp teeth and sharp mouths do good things behind their backs. We can't say that such a person is educated, but that he is kind-hearted and spiteful.

In daily life, after a quarrel, we can always hear the person who stopped the fight say, "Don't argue with him. So are others. Don't mind too much. " And so on.

But he forgot that the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, and the harm is often in those one or two sentences. After the injury, it was full of holes.

"A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June." Educated people will not be outspoken, nor will they use bad mouth and kindness as an excuse; On the contrary, educated people are comfortable to get along with.

Goethe said: "No courtesy can make people see the lack of education at a glance. The correct education lies in making external courtesy and noble education of people show at the same time. "

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Education is self-discipline and caring for others.

Cai Gentan: "Educated people don't complain that others are too young, don't send others away, and don't miss their old evils."

Educated people don't blame other people's small mistakes, don't expose their privacy casually, and don't talk about their past shortcomings.

Education is reflected in the details.

It's not a joke, let alone embarrassing or belittling others.

Locke said: "The essence of education is not to show any contempt or insult to anyone in communication."

Educated people don't embarrass others. After offending others, know how to reflect on yourself and adjust your behavior in time.

When reading in the library, you can choose what you like, but you can't talk loudly. This is your personal education.

When someone is resting in a public area, you can't always make noise and affect others.

Otherwise, your quality is low and you have no education.

Whether a person's education is the highest depends on whether he knows how to care about the feelings of others, whether he knows how to care about others, and whether he will make people who associate with him feel kind, comfortable and satisfied.

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Grimmelshausen said: "A person's mind without education, knowledge and practice is like a field. Even if this land is naturally fertile, it will not bear fruit without farming and sowing. "

A person's education is the foundation of his foothold in society.

Internal cultivation attracts like-minded people, while external behavior and etiquette narrow the distance between them, while internal and external cultivation is the barrier to stabilize all relations.

Education is a major topic in life, which needs our lifelong study.