Family life and family education play a fundamental role in everyone's moral, intellectual and physical development, especially in the formation of people's ideological and moral character and personality quality, and even play a role in shaping. The following is my comments on the special program of the 2022 Family Education Lecture for Primary and Secondary School Students. I hope you like it!

After listening to the lecture, I understand that I must communicate with my children more. Don't see the child brushing the video, quarrel with her immediately and communicate with her more. Teach children not to blame blindly. Now is the child's adolescence, so we must pay more attention to children and interact with them more. For example, you can take part in physical exercise with your child at ordinary times, draw closer the parent-child relationship and help your child build a sense of movement.

Get up with your children in the morning and give them companionship and role models. From the lecture, I learned "sandwich criticism method" and "meaningful praise method", thanking the school for creating this learning opportunity for us.

After listening to Mr. Li's lecture, I understand that in the process of communicating with children, it is best to adopt the communication method that children like. Make children blindly listen to you by preaching, giving orders, forcing, etc. , and children will definitely form a contradiction.

We can use small talk, and parents can integrate the principles of education in the process of small talk. For example, by telling stories, it is much better for children to understand the truth from stories than simply preaching. You can also communicate in the process of small games, because children are in a relatively relaxed state and are more likely to accept their parents' education.

Comments on 2022 Family Education Lecture for Primary and Secondary School Students 3 Every child is a treasure in the eyes of parents. We all look forward to their safe, healthy and happy growth. I have been studying, exploring and reflecting on children's education, hoping to grow, temper and mature with children. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Parents' manners, moral quality and family harmony are very important for children. Every time I see a child's bright smiling face and hear a child's immature voice, all my troubles and hardships are thrown outside the cloud nine.

First, pay attention to moral education and make children become popular people.

Personal character is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders, love others and not bully the weak. Children should appreciate what they do right and criticize what they do wrong, so as to establish a correct view of right and wrong. Kindness, courtesy, civilization, right and wrong, and empathy should be mastered from an early age.

For example, children are a little aggressive when they are very young, like to hit people and often make other children cry. Children with strong personalities often do this. I think we must find a cure for him. One day when I came home from work, my mother came to complain that my son hit her child yesterday and stained her child's clothes. When I got home, I patiently squatted down and asked him, "Every child is the treasure of mom and dad, isn't it?" I believe he will say "yes" because I usually emphasize this point to him. He really said, "Yes." I continued: "if you are beaten by others, your parents will be very distressed and sad!" " But in the same way, you hit another child, and her parents are very distressed and sad, because she is also her parents' little baby! "At this time, he has unconsciously bowed his head and began to know that his behavior will make others sad. From then on, all the children in our area are willing to play and laugh with him, and occasionally a little conflict will soon be reconciled.

Second, cultivate independence and assertiveness, and exercise children's ability.

Children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives. If parents want to be better than the next generation, they should let their children learn from the master. As parents, we should respect children's choices, give them the right to choose, and don't judge children by their own choices.

For example, the color of children's own clothes, when to read, draw, play and play the electronic piano several times, watch cartoons for a long time and play games for a long time, as long as they are within a reasonable range, are all decided by themselves. When children are with me, they will arrange things in an orderly way and sometimes point out my shortcomings. Maybe as parents, we should learn to be smart, learn to show weakness and give opportunities to our children. Only through repeated practice and thinking can children grow up, become independent and surpass their parents.

Third, urge children to develop good living habits, behavior habits and study habits.

Children are the embodiment of parents, and parents are their role models. Therefore, what we ask our children to do must be done by themselves first. Example is more important than words. Moreover, habits are not formed overnight. To help children persevere, persevere, and gradually develop habits. Tell him what's important and what's not. For doctors, time is life; For businessmen, time is money; For you, time is knowledge and growth. If you make good use of your time, you may thrive, but if you waste your time, you may be weak and dry. But work and rest are combined. When it's time to study, study hard. When it is time to play, you should have fun. You should have a timetable in mind. The ultimate goal of education is not to score, but to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy it.

For example, get up in the morning, wash your face, brush your teeth, fold the quilt, organize and manage your own things, and remember where to put your used things. After watching an animated film or movie, discuss with your child what educational significance or what experiences and feelings you have. When adults discuss problems, you can also express your own views and opinions. You can also point out what you think is wrong or bad for adults.

Fourth, praise and encourage more to cultivate children's self-confidence.

There is a famous educational saying: "Let every child walk with his head held high." A child's self-confidence stems from his parents' love for him. Don't be stingy with the words "I love you" and don't be shy to express them. If you love your children, your partner, your parents, you should say it. Not only that, but we should also fully trust and respect him, tap more of his advantages, scold less and tolerate more, but don't indulge; Less comparison, more encouragement; Less arrangement, more guidance; Less discouraged and more grateful. Maybe children will face life with a smile.

For example, for a while, it often rained, so I said, "It always rains, and I'm so annoyed." Unexpectedly, my son said, "I have the happiest family in the world, and it doesn't affect my mood if it rains every day."

Fifth, strengthen safety awareness education so that children can grow up healthily and safely.

There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so we should cultivate children's own safety awareness during their growth. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Children should be taught to know all kinds of safety signs, traffic signs, food signs and other signs. I am also very grateful to the school for cultivating children's safety awareness in an appropriate way at an appropriate time, and teaching them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to different growth stages and different environments.

These are some of my own important thoughts and experiences. There will be all kinds of problems in the process of children's growth, which require our parents to calmly face, rationally analyze and put forward the most suitable solutions for children.

Here, I want to thank the teachers for their hard work, their guidance and tireless teaching. Let's work together to cultivate a better next generation for our motherland.

2022 Lecture on Family Education for Primary and Secondary School Students Part IV Special Program Comments Today, I was lucky enough to watch Wang Kun's lecture on family education, which really benefited me a lot. With the theme of "Five Forces for Children to Go from Excellence to Excellence", the lecture shared with parents how to educate their children scientifically and correctly. As the child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds are influencing the child, and family education plays a vital role in the child's life. So for parents, parenting and education are equally important.

So, as parents, how should we educate our children scientifically and correctly? Let me share with you some feelings after watching the lecture.

First of all, I learned from The Power of Awakening and The Power of Discovery that we should know children correctly. Every child is unique. Love is not to fill a basket, but to light a child's heart. To awaken children, it is necessary to cultivate children's "six views": to awaken children's health view and cultivate their vigorous vitality; Awaken children's outlook on life and let them have dreams and ambitions; Awaken children's wealth view, children who don't know money have no future; Awaken children's values and let them know how to behave; Awaken children's love concept and let them know the bottom line, ethics and principles; Wake up children's world outlook and let them experience the world more. Parents should not criticize their children blindly, but should discover their talents and advantages, help them display their talents and advantages, and accompany and understand them.

Secondly, I realize the importance of parents setting an example from the "power of example". Parents should create a good family learning atmosphere, create a positive communication atmosphere, keep their word, and be punctual and trustworthy. Parents should teach their children how to respect, the rules of being a man, the rules of doing things, and the rules of social morality. Parents are arrogant, children are arrogant, parents are modest, children are humble, parents are immoral, and children are unqualified. Husband and wife should be harmonious, loving and filial to their elders.

Then, I learned from The Power of Love that the most important reason for children to lose their temper is that they don't feel love. Many parents will say that they love their children very much, so how to love their children correctly? We should love our children completely, and children should be advantages in parents' hearts. Let children feel their parents' love with tolerance and encouragement, be a loving child, love themselves, parents, teachers, classmates, schools and society, and children will naturally be sunny and cheerful.

Finally, I learned from the "power of faith" that parents should trust their children. Children are what parents type in. Encouragement can turn an idiot into a genius, and criticism can turn a genius into an idiot. If you scold a child, he will not love you, but he will not love himself. Never attack, criticize and abuse your children. No matter what your children do, they are not as good as others. He or she is also your unique child, so you must trust, encourage and support your child.

Parents who love their children should fulfill their educational responsibilities. Let's practice family education together and teach children to know self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-reliance.

Today, the kindergarten teacher asked parents to watch the live lecture on "Understanding the Double Reduction Policy and Helping Children Grow" organized by the Family Education Lecture Hall. Although I entered the meeting halfway and only listened to part of the content, I benefited a lot from some opinions put forward by the teacher, which I just shared in class. Here's another record:

1. Improve language art and give children positive empowerment. People's subconscious will automatically filter out negative information. When we want to correct a child's bad habits, we should use more positive encouragement and less negative criticism. The more parents emphasize that children can't do a certain behavior, the final result will definitely be counterproductive, and this bad habit will be strengthened. Give children time, patience, encourage them when they make progress, and constantly strengthen them positively. In the end, bad habits can become good habits.

2. Seek outward and inward. Don't stay at home in your spare time, take your children to the park, climb mountains, get in touch with nature and feel the richness of the world, which not only exercises your body, but also broadens your horizons. Usually spend an hour in-depth communication with children, understand their real thoughts and wishes, and do something he likes with them, so that he can be nourished by love and have a healthy and sunny attitude.

Comments on 2022 Family Education Lecture for Primary and Secondary School Students 6 Parents are their children's first teachers, and families are their children's first schools. Our words and deeds have a profound influence on children.

After listening to the teacher's lecture, I deeply realized the importance of family education to children.

First of all, be good at listening. Only by listening to children's voices and understanding their thoughts, what they care about and what they need can we give them targeted help and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell happy stories, and we should express them; When children say unpleasant things, we should let them vent their emotions and show sympathy; When a child tells us a topic that he is not interested in, he should listen patiently to show that we pay attention to his conversation. In this way, children are not only more willing to talk, but also improve their language ability.

Then parents should learn to be friends with their children. If you are always in class, it is difficult to make friends with children and there is no real communication.

Finally, be patient. It takes a process to understand the age, reason and thoughts of children. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.

Therefore, children have a good habit, and their healthy and happy growth is closely related to their parents and families.

Comments on the Special Program of 2022 Family Education Lecture for Primary and Secondary School Students Part VII The quality of family environment directly affects students' mental health. Therefore, establishing a good family environment is an important guarantee for students' healthy physical and mental development and forming good psychological quality. Family virtue is the prerequisite for the formation of good psychological quality, and family members should be harmonious. Although they sometimes disagree, they are in agreement on the issue of principle. In such an atmosphere of cooperation and understanding, students not only learn to help, love, cooperate and understand people, but also develop their thinking will and ability harmoniously, gain a sense of security from it and form a sense of being willing to receive education. On the contrary, family members are strangers, selfish and quarrelsome. Students in such families are often psychologically unhealthy and even deformed. They are cold, paranoid and uncooperative. Therefore, we should vigorously advocate family virtues, correctly handle the relationship between family members, form good norms, live in harmony, and strive to create an atmosphere of family governance. Parents should not oppress others by force in words and deeds, but should be emotional, persuasive and lead by example, which fully shows that family is the harbor of life, which will help to form a good psychological quality of cadres and students.

Parents' good parenting attitude is the key to the formation of good psychological quality. Parents are role models for children to learn. Parents' parenting attitude and educational methods directly affect children's behavior and psychology, and students' good behavior habits are the result of parents' education.

Therefore, we must vigorously improve the quality of parents, improve their responsibilities, understand the importance of cultivating students' healthy psychology, and create a good family environment for children's growth.

Comments on the special program of 2022 family education lecture for primary and middle school students 8. I was lucky enough to watch the lecture "Family Environment and Mental Health of Primary and Secondary School Students". After listening to the lecture, I gained a lot.

Family is the first environment for children to grow up. Parents should create a harmonious family atmosphere for their children and let them grow up healthily. If a child lives with proper praise, he can learn self-esteem; Life is full of care, and children will naturally have love in their hearts; If he lives in equality, he will learn to be fair; Constant encouragement will inevitably build self-confidence; Without love in life, he will be indifferent; If you are often humiliated, you will naturally be humble; If you are always praised inappropriately, you will fall into complacent conceit; He always complains when he hears it, and he will learn to blame; Children who are often reprimanded and beaten will also be rude to others; It is almost impossible for children who are often abused to have a civilized language ... A sentence by the famous writer Roland brilliantly illustrates the influence of environmental family on a person. She said: Life is not an individual that can grow in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the road. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. The influence of environment on a person is not only tangible imitation, but also intangible shaping. She also said that it is not only the knowledge in books or the teacher's remarks that form a child's character and concept, but also every house, every plant, every inch of sandstorm, every companion, every little thing in life and every extracurricular activity in the environment. These passionate words all show that family environment has a decisive influence on children's growth.

It is often said that parents are children's first teachers, which stems from children's potential imitation consciousness and parents' role model. Therefore, parents' personal qualities and behavior habits play a vital role in the mental health development of primary school students.

9. Today, I listened carefully to the video courses on "Family environment and mental health of primary and secondary school students" and "Understanding adolescent depression and learning to communicate with children", which was deeply inspired and benefited a lot.

Our children are a cross-century generation and are in an important period of physical and mental development. With the development of physiology and psychology, the increase of competitive pressure, the expansion of social experience and the change of thinking mode, they may encounter or produce various psychological problems in their study, life, interpersonal communication and self-awareness. Some problems, if not solved in time, will have a negative impact on the healthy growth of students, which will seriously lead to behavioral disorders or personality defects of children. Their healthy growth not only needs a harmonious and relaxed environment, but also needs to help them master the methods and abilities of self-regulation and self-development. Family influences or shapes children's psychological quality to a great extent, so the family should bear important responsibilities and play an important role in improving the psychological quality of primary and secondary school students. For example, we should be full of love, tolerance and appreciation, so that children like to be with us. Let children look forward to and miss in the most difficult and desperate times; Let children know that our parents will be with them in their most difficult and desperate times; Face pressure with children, don't complain, don't escape; Let children know that we are willing to help them when they are desperate, learn to ask their parents for help, or ask professional organizations for help. As parents, we should fully realize the greatest protective effect of the family on children, improve family cohesion, and at the same time face the pressure with children to improve their psychological resilience.

Communication with children is skillful, for example, changing the order of discussion, changing the educational mode of just talking and not doing, not always helping children make decisions, not easily denying children's ideas and ways of doing things, showing interest and appreciation for things that children are interested in, cultivating children's habit of independent thinking, not accusing children in public, trying not to use negative tone, and paying attention to the occasions and ways of speaking. Every child's learning ability is different, and the foundation is different, so it is necessary to set a practical goal for children and treat the fluctuation of their academic performance rationally. Criticizing children should be careful not to exceed the limit and not to repeat the same words over and over again. This is easy to cause children's resentment, but it will stimulate rebellious psychology. We should give our children their own space and guide them to make positive friends.

In the process of growing up, everyone will have a fight with their parents. If the child wins, it is a comedy. If the parents win, it will be a tragedy. We must never stand with difficulties and hit children. Paying attention to children's psychological education and cultivating their good psychological quality can better promote their success.

Comments on the 2022 Family Education Lecture for Primary and Secondary School Students 10 Family is an important place for children to live and grow up, and it is also an important support for children's psychological growth. A good family environment makes our children feel more secure, confident and capable of facing the unpredictable future.

Professor Pang analyzed the importance of family environment to children's psychological growth from two aspects: mental health characteristics and stress model. It is pointed out that families need to provide physical and psychological protection for children who seem to have grown up but are not yet psychologically mature. The family should have strong cohesion, be protected by peers and children in the face of pressure, and let the children have something worthy of yearning and nostalgia in the most difficult and desperate times.

Create a good family environment. When communicating with children, parents should not convey anxiety, give their children emotional support and create a safe environment for them. And put forward four methods. First, more companionship and more understanding; Second, communicate more and preach less; Third, formulate rules to manage mobile phones and reading materials; Fourth, face the pressure together.

To sum up, children have great academic pressure, small development channels, lack of companionship and playmates, psychological fragility and lack of frustration experience. They need understanding, companionship and harmonious families to face the unpredictable future.