Different children have different educational methods, and what kind of personality a child has when he was a child determines what kind of method should be adopted.

If parents' education on "Three Views" is in place at an early age, so that children can know that they are responsible for their own decisions and have this sense of responsibility, then they will be more responsible for everything, more willing to persist, and be able to follow the development of children's hobbies, then this situation requires tolerant education, because children are very clear about their future path, and parents can do some career and general direction guidance on "Three Views" as much as possible, and there is no need to interfere too much in their children's lives.

Another situation is that the child grew up savagely when he was a child, and his parents didn't educate him too much, so that he was confused about life when he grew up. He doesn't know what responsibility he should bear, and he doesn't know what consequences his choice will bring. At this time, parents should naturally do a kind of tolerant education and tell their children as much as possible that your current state is wrong and you don't know what your future will be like. We will give you some detailed instructions, and then let the children make a choice. Don't fix your child's life path, simply give him a few choices, and then clearly tell him what kind of life consequences these choices will bring and what kind of life state you will be in the future. Then let the child think for himself, decide for himself, and let him bear the consequences for his choice.

No matter whether a child is born with a sense of responsibility or a natural laziness, it is necessary to implant an idea into the child that parents should be responsible for their own lives, which is more of a companionship growth and a general direction than a decision on the future of the child. Moreover, it is unfair for children to decide their future, so parents can naturally make their children live more confidently by giving them this sense of self-responsibility and being responsible for their own lives.