If children are bullied at school, it is a very serious matter, because it may have a great impact on their mental health and study life. But if children don't want to tell their parents, it may make the situation more complicated, because parents can't help their children solve the problem in time. First of all, we must understand why children are unwilling to tell their parents. It may be because the child feels that he can't handle this problem and is worried that he will be considered weak; Or because children are worried that their parents are too excited, it may make the problem worse. So, what if children don't tell their parents? I have the following suggestions: build trust and communication channels. First of all, parents need to establish channels of trust and communication with their children, so that children can understand that they can ask their parents for help and support at any time. Parents should also actively listen to their children's voices and understand their confusion and troubles. Observe children's emotions and behaviors Secondly, parents need to pay attention to children's emotions and behaviors. If they find that the child has obvious emotional changes or abnormal behaviors, such as depression, skipping school, poor grades, etc. Parents need to communicate with their children in time, ask what happened and give them support and help. Encourage children to seek help from school or others. If children don't want to tell their parents, they can be encouraged to seek help from school teachers or class teachers, so that schools can get involved in dealing with this problem. At the same time, children can also be encouraged to seek help from their trusted friends or relatives, so that children no longer feel lonely and helpless. Educate children how to deal with bullying Finally, parents need to educate their children how to deal with bullying, such as reminding them to stay calm, avoiding fighting back and asking for help, and helping them enhance their self-protection awareness and self-confidence. In short, if children don't tell their parents about bullying, parents need to understand their mentality, establish trust and communication channels, pay attention to their emotions and behaviors, encourage children to seek help from school or others, and educate them how to deal with bullying. Through these methods, parents can help their children solve the problem of bullying and let their children grow up happily and safely in school.

In addition, if the child does not tell his parents that bullying is serious, such as physical injury and sexual assault, parents need to report the case to the police in time so that the public security organs can intervene in the investigation. At the same time, parents should actively cooperate with the school and the police to fight for the rights and interests of their children and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests. Finally, I would like to remind parents that no matter whether the child has told you about being bullied, we should always pay attention to the physical and mental health of the child and try our best to provide a warm and harmonious family environment for the child to grow up confidently and happily.