Childhood is one of the most important stages in life, and the words and deeds of parents and kindergarten teachers have a vital influence on children's growth. This paper will discuss the matters needing attention in educating children from three aspects to help parents and kindergarten teachers better guide their children's growth.

The importance of words and deeds

Children learn through observation and imitation, so parents and kindergarten teachers should pay special attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. Every movement, every sentence, may become a model for children to learn.

Respect is the cornerstone.

Treat children with an equal attitude, listen more and understand more, and use less commanding tone. Give timely praise to children when they perform well; When they misbehave, they should be guided by dialogue, not simply accused. Real education is based on mutual respect.

Inspiration is better than indoctrination.

Real education lies not in instilling knowledge, but in inspiring thinking. Inspire children's interest and enthusiasm with heuristic education, and let them actively participate and be willing to explore. This kind of education can not only help children learn knowledge, but also cultivate their thinking ability.