Children are afraid of difficulties and hide. This is because children lack self-confidence. Our parents should guide him more, play some games with her to cultivate children's hobbies and let her do it herself. We should encourage her more and make her more confident, so that the child will not avoid it if he tries a few more times.

What should children do to avoid problems?

0 1, let children understand that by improving their abilities, they can become strong.

Some difficult children don't have the courage to face it, probably because they don't have the ability to match. Parents can guide and help their children to improve their abilities in a certain aspect. When they become strong enough, they won't be afraid of difficulties.

02. Help children cut tasks and break down big goals into small ones.

Some tasks seem too difficult to complete at first glance, but when they are cut into small tasks, they become much easier. Teaching children this method of task decomposition can achieve big goals and reduce children's resistance by completing small tasks. In the process of achieving their goals, they will constantly increase their successful experiences and experiences.

03, lend a helping hand when the child needs help and be the strong backing of the child.

Let the child know that mom and dad will always be behind him, love him unconditionally and help him forever. Then, children can face bravely and charge forward without scruple. Strong backing is always an important source of confidence and security that children need most.

04. Encourage more and criticize less.

Don't directly force children to face difficulties, and don't criticize their cowardice and cowardice, so as not to increase their bad experiences. Instead, celebrate with children when they overcome difficulties through their own efforts, praise them and let them feel the joy of success after overcoming difficulties.

05. Guide children to play monsters in the game.

Some difficulties look ferocious, just like "monsters". At this time, parents can guide their children to treat difficulties as "monsters", let them treat them with the mentality of playing games, and let them blame and upgrade in the game.

06. Parents lead by example and face difficulties optimistically.

When parents encounter difficulties, they are not pessimistic, do not escape, do not complain, but face them positively and optimistically, and directly seek solutions to the problems. This will form an invisible guide for children and let them learn how to face difficulties.

07. Accept yourself and face difficulties calmly.

There are some difficulties that we are doomed to overcome. Let children learn to accept their own limitations and limitations, and don't lose confidence because they can't do something. No one is perfect, and we can't make everything perfect. Self-confidence is undoubtedly the magic weapon to overcome difficulties