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Luxury education is not good for children's growth. Why?
You don't have to let the personal behavior of keeping up with the joneses affect your children. Why do I often hear many parents say: This child hurts for nothing, how can I raise a heartless one? Parents who do not expect anything in return usually educate selfish children. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world. It doesn't mean that we should be better than ourselves, and we don't have to give gifts to our children all the time. Parents don't need everything to be more expensive on their children, so it's best. You can't be willing to spend a lot of money for a better face, just want to buy the best for your child. In this objective world, children will face many temptations in the future. If children want to have confidence and belief in their own life path under such complicated conditions, then parents should set an example, manage their consumption habits and don't blindly follow the trend. Cherish the present, be not arrogant and impetuous, and children can live healthier.

Luxury cultural education is very easy to make children more and more practical. Now the children at home are so spoiled that they want to buy everything for their children. Last month, the boss bought Xiaowen several new cars, tricycles, bicycles and children's twisting cars. Now the living room at home has been occupied so heavily that it can no longer be put down. In my mother's words: children's toys must be professionally equipped with a house. With the improvement of family conditions, parents will give their children what they want. Who doesn't care about your children and who wants to let their children fall behind others? But we should have our own standards, and we don't have to be kind enough to do something wrong. Too "extravagant" educational methods are likely to add a lot of burden and pressure to families. We will continue to make children more practical and objective.

No matter how expensive the toy is, it can't compare with the parents' waiting. Around the world, being rich doesn't mean having everything. Today's children enjoy the beautiful daily life of the little prince and princess. They are well-fed and well-off. Parents always expect them to get the best and hope that they will become better. Many children become more and more selfish because of their parents' different doting. They don't know how to share with others. They only care about themselves and never consider the adverse effects. Giving children more rewards and punishments, a hug and a look will have more practical effects than material encouragement. What children want is not the most, not more expensive, but everyone's unique waiting and love. In daily life, we can study, talk and play games with our children. Happiness is so simple and happy. No amount of expensive toys can replace parents' love for their children.

As the saying goes, parents are originals, printers are at home, and children are copies. I don't think it is necessary to buy the most expensive things for children. The most suitable shopping is the most important thing. Some mothers always like to follow the trend blindly. What others have, my family has to have it, and it can't be more cost-effective than others. I always feel that imported things must be good and suitable for children. I don't know that many products are shouting fake foreign goods to cheat China's ignorant mother of her money. At the same time, parents should not indulge their children's willful life, carefully choose their children's toys, learn to manage money, don't have to compare too much, and respect "famous brands" and "high quality". Improper parenting education methods can easily lead to children's psychological state of comparison, and parents are willing to pay attention to it in many ways and guide it correctly.