Children like to imitate adults. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children They don't usually lie, and children naturally don't lie.
Second, communicate with children more.
Usually, we should communicate with children more, understand their inner thoughts and help them overcome the difficulties they encounter.
Third, let children distinguish right from wrong.
Parents should educate their children from an early age, let them know what they can and can't do, and help them develop the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Children will naturally make fewer mistakes.
Fourth, encourage and praise.
Parents should encourage not to lie, praise their children's honest behavior in time, and let their children develop honest habits.
Five, don't beat and scold children
Some parents are angry at lying to their children and beat and scold them. They think that only in this way can children have long-term memories. In fact, beating and cursing will only encourage children to lie.
Sixth, let children make up for mistakes instead of admitting them.
What needs attention is how to make children correct their mistakes. Express the facts you see first, and then ask the countermeasures. "I saw you turn all the books down, everywhere. What should we do now? " Then clean up with the children. In this process, we teach children to make up for their mistakes with their own actions and take responsibility for their actions, so that children can understand that there is no punishment after making mistakes, but only to bear and stifle their own lying motives.
Seven, allow some harmless lies.
If some "lies" are only produced by her rich imagination, we can give some relaxed atmosphere and try to understand the real meaning behind her words. If the child says "Dad wears a skirt", it is probably because of his father's performance.
Eight, establish a relationship of honesty and trust.
Parents set an example and establish an honest and trusting relationship. You can't say "injections don't hurt" because children are afraid of injections; Don't talk casually about promises you don't keep.
As we all know, children lying is a headache for both parents and teachers. Can you correct the child's lying? Absolutely! How to correct children's lying is a skill that parents and teachers must master.