1, so that individuals can acquire appropriate knowledge about sex, physiology, psychology and emotion consistent with age growth.

2. Make individuals take an objective and understanding attitude towards various phenomena in sexual development (including themselves and others).

3, eliminate personal anxiety and fear in sexual development and behavior, and promote physical and mental health.

4. Help people correctly understand and handle the relationship between men and women and its related ethics and laws, and enhance their sense of responsibility for their sexual behavior.

5. Help people to establish harmonious marriage and scientific and civilized sexual life, and promote social stability.

6. Resist the poison of pornography to people's physical and mental health and promote social spiritual civilization.

7. Popularize the knowledge of prenatal and postnatal care and promote the improvement of population quality.

8. Promote the formation of healthy interpersonal relationships and prevent sexual indulgence and sexual crimes.

Pay attention to gender education for girls.

"Feminine and feminine, masculine and masculine" is the traditional gender standard, but in recent years, "neutral wind" has become popular, affecting some girls. They cut short hair and put on neutral clothes. Walking in the street, others may guess whether it is a boy or a girl.

In fact, it is understandable that girls are slightly neutral in dress, but many girls are also very neutral in character. They lost the gentleness and gentleness that girls should have, became careless and even stronger than boys. This gender neutrality may affect the girl's personality development and her future family happiness.

Children's gender identity disorder generally occurs in childhood or adolescence. Some girls can consciously identify with their own gender when they are physically developing in adolescence, but some girls can't accept the fact that they are girls, which leads to gender confusion and even hopes to change their gender through sex-change surgery.

In order to avoid this kind of children's gender barrier, we should help girls identify with their own gender when they are young. We can always tell her clearly: "You are a girl!" You can also teach her to know her own organs when you bathe her, compare her with her mother, and let her know that she and her mother are both of the same sex and women! In this way, girls are less prone to gender barriers. Of course, we can also tell her clearly: "It's great to have a girl!" In this way, she will gradually like her gender and have a sense of identity as a girl.

Some mothers hope that the baby will be a boy when they are pregnant, and later find out that it is a girl, so they simply raise the girl as a boy. It is easy to mislead a girl and make her confused about her gender. Therefore, it is necessary to dress girls in girls' clothes, buy toys that girls like, and encourage her to associate with girls more. Cultivating a girl's correct concept of gender from an early age will not bury hidden dangers for her future growth.

1. Parents should downplay their expectations of their children's gender and establish the concept that "boys and girls are equally good".

2. According to the child's gender, choose the way to treat him to avoid the child from forming a wrong gender consciousness.

3. If the child has gender consciousness deviation, it should be corrected and adjusted when the child is three or four years old in the first negative stage.

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1, happy body

From birth, babies feel happy and satisfied with their parents' caresses and hugs, stroking their little faces, stroking their skin, making eye contact with them intently and holding the baby in their arms. All these have instilled in their young minds that the body is a pleasant attitude, and touching others and being touched by others will bring happiness. This is the first step for children to learn to identify with their own gender.

2. Equality between men and women.

When children notice that their opposite sex partners are different from themselves, such as clothes, hairstyles and ways of urinating. We should guide them to accept this difference equally, eliminate the doubt of "who is better" and make children feel satisfied with their gender. Children should be helped to establish the concept of equality between men and women.

3. Healthy gender role model

If there is a healthy gender role model at home, children can cultivate a healthy gender identity. This is related to how parents treat their children and how parents get along. Although the gender gap is narrowing in modern society, mothers are still the main caregivers of children. If the father comes and goes in a hurry every day and rarely takes care of the family, and the mother feels wronged and angry, then the child is likely to feel the same way. If parents are not only satisfied with their work, but also think that family is more important than work, children will benefit from it. The expression of love between parents also has a profound influence on children. When parents respect each other, show consideration and openly express their love, children will naturally express their love for their loved ones in the future.

4. Know your own gender game.

Girls generally like to do housework and manual work. In the living environment, girls are not short of gender learning models. Mothers and female teachers (in kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools, the number of female teachers is far greater than that of male teachers) are always around. However, it is also good for girls to communicate with their fathers frequently.

How to give sex education to girls?

Daughter is a flower, daughter is a dream, and daughter is beautiful, but this world has always been false, ugly, true, good and beautiful. A series of secretive cases describe the broken dreams of girls who should be smiling and running freely. Because the location of sexual assault is hidden, criminals threaten the victims. Moreover, the young girls who were victims were all under the age of 10, and what they said could not be used as evidence, which constituted a crime hotbed for criminals to hide. Parents often go out to work or are busy with work. They usually think that their children are so young that they will not be sexually harassed. Therefore, they are unprepared, lack of observation on the abnormal situation of their children, and have not given any education on preventing sexual assault to their children, which eventually leads to adverse consequences.

Therefore, in this respect, parents shoulder more responsibilities:

Don't leave your child in the care of the opposite sex except your family. Be sure to understand the person who takes care of the child absolutely.

No matter how busy you are, you should carefully observe your child's abnormal reactions, including becoming timid, crying, suddenly not liking school, and suddenly afraid of making out with your parents. Mother should quietly check the child's lower body and underwear when taking a bath.

Always know the people around you, including relatives, children's teachers and partners.

Tell your little daughter that no one can touch any part of the swimsuit.

Anyone's behavior, as long as it makes you feel painful or uncomfortable, immediately express resistance, even teachers or other authorities, and tell your mother and other reliable adults as soon as possible.

Let children know what sexual assault is and how to deal with it as soon as possible, and let them know that no one has the right to touch or hurt their bodies. If it is violated, you should seek help from trusted adults and police. They must not be shy and timid and waste time.

Children should know the environment when they go out, try to take a safe route and avoid remote and unfamiliar places.

Girls should pay attention to the movement around them when they go out, and don't talk to strangers. If someone is entangled, get close to many people as soon as possible and call if necessary.

Girls can't stay in other people's homes without their parents' permission.

Don't casually enjoy drinks or food given by strangers outside, beware of drugs.

A person pays attention to closing the door at home and refuses strangers to enter the house.

Children who travel through the jungle, even with the care of their relatives, will be at a loss if they are not prepared before leaving. Parents, first learn how to protect their babies, and then let them learn how to care for themselves, so that the flower-like life can blossom to the fullest.