(1) In the process of children's early growth, personal and stable upbringing is very important. Continuous and stable upbringing can affect the formation of children's character. Personality is a person's overall, stable and unique psychological activity tendency and psychological signs, and its formation will last until 18 years old, so it needs stable education.

② A really strong education should come from psychological strength. Whether it is a father or a mother, it is the most successful education that children can respect themselves, admire themselves and love themselves from the heart.

Do you want to stop some improper behaviors of children at once? Your reaction was to make rules for him. (3) I also divide "calf love" into yin and yang: one is positive love, that is, fully exposed love, from expression to action; The other is feminine love, hidden in the bottom of my heart, restraint, restraint. The former shows grace, while the latter shows strength.

(4) First, when others are present, you can't just look after yourself, which is the most basic truth of being a man;

Second, don't ignore the relationship between the two sides in other people's homes. The people are masters of their own affairs and have the initiative. This is to understand the relationship and status in society.

Third, children can be ignorant, but adults around them should stop them in time when they see their ignorance. The act of stopping is to let children know what is right.

The accumulation of these rules is reflected in children's education.

The same is true of marriage. When looking for a partner, people often consider the other person's appearance, figure, ability, education and family background, but when it comes to life, what makes you happy must be that the other person has a good personality and has someone else in mind. Understanding, understanding, tolerance, peace and self-discipline are the guarantee of a happy marriage.

6. Many people don't want to be criticized by others. It is an offence to criticize others. However, when you do something wrong and no one talks about you, you don't know that you are wrong, so you won't be taken seriously and won't change. At this time, who criticizes you best? That's the person closest to you. He dares to say that you love you and are not afraid to offend you. He really wants you to get better. You are my child. You made a mistake. I told you at home that you are heavier, and you won't make such mistakes outside in the future. In short, only relatives and people who love you dare to say you. Do you think so? "She nodded and said," I see. "