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Do you think the attraction of opposites in children's books is suitable for children?
Not suitable, because children are still young and don't know that opposites attract, but after reading the book, they will be curious and even imitate it deliberately, which will have some bad effects.

First, children don't understand, and they will be curious to imitate after reading it. The world of children is naive. In fact, they don't know what opposites attract, and sometimes they may just like to play with their brothers and sisters and have no other ideas.

However, if there are fragments of opposites attracting in children's books, children may be curious after reading them, and even deliberately imitate some scenes in the books to get along with the opposite sex.

In this way, the feelings between children will become less pure, or even lose their pure feelings, which is very unfavorable to their future emotional development.

Second, children know that opposites attract too early, which may lead to puppy love. If children start to attract the opposite sex at an early age, then it is very likely that children will fall in love prematurely, because if they know this, they will deliberately think about it when they get along with the opposite sex.

If the opposite sex who gets along with children has the same idea, then two people may start a relationship like adults. Such puppy love is not necessarily a good thing for children.

If the child falls in love early, it will easily lead to the child not studying hard and concentrating on falling in love, which will eventually lead to the child's lack of security in love. After all, if people talk too much about love, they will be reluctant to get married, thus forming a vicious circle.

One of my relatives belongs to this precocious family. I talked about five or six girlfriends in kindergarten. After I went to primary school, I was busy falling in love with that little girl. I just don't want to learn. It is said that such children are masters of love, but they may ruin their lives.

Therefore, children's world should be full of childlike innocence, because their childhood is only a few years. If they understand that opposites attract like adults and fall in love too early, it will actually be very unfavorable to their view of marriage and love.