There are many ways of entertainment now, and people are busy doing their favorite things after dinner. Don't talk about mobile TV in rural areas before, even some rural areas have no electricity. I remember when there was electricity in our village, I was only a teenager. I was particularly excited to see the electric light that night. Finally, the whole family doesn't have to gather around the kerosene lamp at night to watch the faint light.
Now everyone has a mobile phone, so they are busy watching it when they are free. Who has time to fight with others? More than ten years ago, when Zhao Daxia in the village rode past a village, many young men in that village were standing in the street. Seeing Zhao Daxia riding a bicycle, they looked straight in the eye. The hero is slim, fair-skinned, and has a sign.
A young man nicknamed "Black Sanzi" saw that Zhao Daxia had gone far by bike, so he grabbed a bicycle to catch up with him. He walked in front of Zhao Daxia and looked back. One of them accidentally fell, and both the bike and the man fell to the ground, with neither end touching the ground. This made "Black Sanzi" very angry. I stepped forward to catch Zhao Daxia and kept cursing. Zhao Daxia didn't expect such a thing to happen. He didn't know what to do at the moment.
At that time, there was no mobile phone, so she couldn't ask her acquaintances for help, so she had to put in a good word for Heisanzi, who just wouldn't let her go and had to pay for the money he fell. Later, a person couldn't see the past and came to persuade him. I don't know who recognized Zhao Daxia as his friend's fiancee in the crowd, so I quickly told his friend.
Zhao Daxia's fiance came with a Mongolian knife when he heard the news. He is also a troublesome bicker. His fiancee was bullied like this. How can he swallow this tone and go forward with a knife? Heisanzi's shoulder is bleeding. At this time, someone called the police, and the nearby police station drove away all the people who fought.
Now most rural people are working outside, while those who stay at home are doing what they like, playing mahjong and playing games. In short, they are busy. Whatever the reason, the best thing is that there is no fighting in the countryside.
Some people say that fighting in the countryside used to be common. Why are there so few now?
In the past, the clan power of clan governance in rural society was too strong in rural areas. Many relatives depend on the number of families to see how much you are, so I will bully you and hit you. At that time, people's legal awareness was weak, transportation and information were inconvenient, and it would be very difficult to obtain evidence and investigate, which led many people to be bullied and choose not to call the police.
At that time, farmers were too poor to work. Every year, they just do nothing all day except busy farming. Poverty and laziness often breed many unnecessary struggles. Now people are busy getting rich and heading for a well-off life. Who's in the mood to fight?
In the past, whoever was thick-armed, strong and brave in the countryside was a' big uncle' who could beat and scold, and who took advantage.
I was born in the 1970s, and my only son in the countryside is going to be bullied. Four or five brothers in the village walked sideways. At that time, the concept of legal system was weak, and anything louder than a fist could have the final say. There are many brothers rushing in. How can you deal with five people by yourself?
When I was a child, my head teacher and Chinese teacher came from the next village. One day, I suddenly saw him come to our village by bike. I saw him walk to a door in our village, so I grabbed him by the collar and scolded him. That guy happens to be the kind of family with five brothers. My Chinese teacher is too tall for that guy to do it himself, so his brother and younger brother ran over, and the three brothers fought with my Chinese teacher ... At this moment, my father ran out, called his sons home while running, and then circled. Anyway, my Chinese teacher didn't suffer much. But if we continue to fight each other and the five brothers fight together, we will lose. Those brothers' fathers are more reasonable. The reason for the fight was that these brothers were so angry that they spoke ill of the Chinese teacher's father and came to our village alone to fight. At that time, whether it was beating people or being beaten, it would be all right after the fight.
Now that the law is perfect, medical expenses, detention, fines and sentences will be compensated, and people's awareness of rights protection has generally increased. Some people in our village tried to mix the society, fought and fought many times, and they were punished many times. Now they are honest. Third, the countryside is indeed civilized. In the past, fighting was not a shame, but a pride. Now that everyone's awareness of civilization has generally improved, people who fight are staying at a respectful distance from each other, and he himself feels embarrassed. Personally, I think people should be kind when they are born. As a person, whether farmers or city dwellers, we should know that bullying the weak and others at will is the last thing that people with low quality will do. Always remember the old saying that rabbits will bite when they are anxious, and you won't even have a chance to regret if you get angry with honest people.
Now most young people are working hard in other places, and the rest at home are old people and children. Helping each other is the maximization of interests, and fighting is the highest cost. The legal awareness of rural men and women has improved. If you dare to touch me, I'll call 1 10 at once, and you'll have a good look ... The heavy punch of the country's crackdown on evil has been swung to the countryside, and those who do evil in the village can't hide now, but dare to come out and make trouble? I don't think they want a good life. ...
Now the society has gradually entered the legal society. Besides, the cultural quality of young people has improved now, and they are not as boring as before, so the society is more stable and there are fewer fights. Even if you have a temper again, there are relevant laws and regulations. Besides, everyone is trying to make money now, and there is no time to fight for a trivial matter. Now everyone is comparing who has more money, who has a good life, who has a high quality, who is more cultivated and who is more respected. Fighting won't solve anything. Moreover, unlike before, you have to pat the dust on your body and lose money after fighting.
I saw junior high school students fighting some time ago. On the one hand, there are many people holding bricks, on the other hand, there are only a few people. Several children clamored to "hit me and see how much money your family has." Nowadays, children know that fighting costs a lot of money, and we adults know this more. What are the frictions and disputes? No matter who is right or wrong, those who choose to start a fight must bear the responsibility. If you shoot quickly, whether it is knocking down the other person's face or neck, he only needs to go to the hospital to identify a minor injury, then what awaits you is legal responsibility. From hospitalization to rehabilitation, and then to the understanding of the other party, the manpower, material resources and financial resources spent in the middle are very considerable, so from this point of view, many people have been eliminated. So call now? Are you kidding? Huh, how much money you got there? It can't be solved with one punch. If it is not a threat to the life safety of your family, I advise you to bear it for a while and take a step back. However, although fighting is expensive, if a sound legal system allows you to solve the problem without fighting, it is best to solve the problem within the framework of the law. Of course, in times of crisis, you still have to be brave to show your sword, and when you have to make a move, you still have to stand up bravely. Be responsible for social responsibility and the safety of yourself and your family.
Be born good. As a person, whether it is a farmer or a city, we should know that bullying the weak and having a big family on our own height and strength is the worst thing. You should always remember that rabbits bite when they are anxious, and you have no chance to regret being angry with honest people. Secondly, with the progress of a harmonious society, people and society pay attention to harmonious coexistence in order to develop harmoniously. Fighting can only solve temporary anger, and it has no significance and promotion for the development and perfection of the whole thing. I haven't heard of anything now. I can only win by fighting.
The reason for this is that in the past, in the production team, a group of people got together and had a lot of gossip, and most of those strong people were young people with soft blood. In a word, it is inappropriate, and quarrels and beatings are inevitable. At that time, there were many activities, such as militia training, meetings between the Communist Youth League and the Women's Federation, and conflicts occurred when someone fell in love and was stuck in a thick stick. Later, farmland was responsible for family production, and the contradiction between some neighborhoods was particularly prominent. Some people try their best to occupy other people's cultivated land and are insatiable, so fighting is common. Although I was young at that time, I saw the Liu brothers and sisters fighting with the Wang brothers. The second Liu beat people with the crank of a small tractor ... Some villages even killed people for it ... I don't know how many years have passed, but now the population is relatively overpopulated. The densely populated era in that village has passed and the housing is spacious. Some people moved to cities, the rural population decreased, food prices decreased, and everyone's enthusiasm for farming was not high. These are the reasons why this contradiction has gradually disappeared. One more thing, with the improvement of people's educational level, some particularly ignorant rural old people have passed away. The younger generation, who despise material things and pay attention to spiritual food, have no leisure to quarrel and fight, except for some hooligans.
I still have a say in this matter. After all, I grew up in the countryside.
When I was a child (post-80s generation in our village), the only child was bullied. There were 4-5 brothers in the village. It is absolutely impossible to walk sideways, because at that time, the concept of legal system was weak, and accidents were louder than voices and harder than fists. At this time, many brothers rushed into it. How do you deal with five people by yourself?
When I was in fifth grade, the head teacher and Chinese teacher were from the village next door. One evening after school, I suddenly saw him coming to our village by bike. I called my teacher at that time, but he ignored me. I saw him walk to the door of a man's house in our village, and he grabbed him by the collar and scolded him.
It turned out that the man happened to be the kind of family with five brothers. My Chinese teacher is too tall for that man to do it himself, so his brother and younger brother came running, and the three brothers fought with my Chinese teacher. ...
The end result is that the man's father ran out, called his sons home while running, and then rounded up. Anyway, my Chinese teacher didn't suffer much, and he was tall, but if he continued to fight, the other five brothers would be in trouble together.
Fortunately, the brothers' fathers are more reasonable, and he knows our teacher and that he teaches in the village, so it's not hard.
Later, we inquired that the reason for their fight was that these brothers seemed to disrespect the Chinese teacher's father and made him angry. They went directly to our village to go it alone, and they were really good hands. Remember after being taken away, the teacher also said this sentence:
"I still don't believe I can't get along in your village?"
Anyway, the teacher came to class as usual the next day and rode by the brothers' house every day. Fortunately, they never fought again.
Maybe it's the teacher's fault. If it were someone else, it would be less polite. ...
I still remember visiting my second aunt's house during the Spring Festival one year, and suddenly I heard someone arguing behind the house. Let's run out and have a look. Boy, the two families fought for some reason. Sticks and shovels flew everywhere, and some people even ran home and took out shotguns to fight. Fortunately, the gun is not aimed at people, but at the sky, otherwise it will be dead.
The reason for this fight seems to be that a relative of one family came to visit, then drank too much, and the guests wandered around the street. As a result, they quarreled with another family. The two sides broke up without saying a word, and dozens of people started work together. Anyway, several people were bleeding at that time.
Every time there is a party in our village on the 2nd and 5th, the villagers nearby will come to buy and sell things. On the first day of listing, the sellers in our village will take a sweet potato vine to occupy a good position in the market. If anyone dares to move out, it will definitely be another disaster, because the struggle for market territory often happens. In this case, vegetable sellers in our village can go to other villages to sell vegetables, pigs in other villages can go to our village to sell vegetables, and our village can kill them.
There is also a saying that in those days, young people did not go to work in cities, but stayed at home. Except for the busy farming season, they are idle and bored at other times. If they are bored, they will come out to make trouble and fight. The reason for the fight is nothing more than an inch of homestead, your duck ate my cabbage, you cut wheat and stepped on my land, and the wife of the Zhang family doesn't like to speak ill of her runaway wife … and so on.
Why are there fewer and fewer fights in the countryside now? First, most young people are working hard in other places, and the rest at home are old people and children. There is no need to fight. The most important thing is that the legal awareness of rural men and women has improved, because times have changed. In previous times, truth was made with fists. Now if you dare to fight with me, I'll call 165438+ right away.
In addition, now, the country's heavy punch of eliminating evil has been waved to the countryside. Those who do evil in the market every day can't escape now, but dare to come out and make trouble?
I don't think they want a good life. ...
There were many fights in rural areas in the 1980s and 1990s.
At that time, there was a dispute between villages about the ownership of mountains. Sometimes there is a battle for water during drought. Throughout the eighties and nineties, there were gang fights in our village and several neighboring villages.
Once, there was a conflict between our village and Lingcun because of the ownership of a pond. Seventy or eighty men, women and children moved in two villages. At that time, I was a teenager and went with adults. Dozens of people, some carrying poles, some carrying hoes and shovels. Like a war on TV, rushing to the pond. At the beginning, the leaders of the two villages negotiated there, but for some reasons, they couldn't talk properly. Later, someone shouted: Brothers, fight! Suddenly, the villagers of two villages scuffled together. Finally, the school people came to stop a bloody battle.
In the 1980s and 1990s, few rural people went to work. On the day when people are used to holiday parties, young men and women in the county will flock to those villages, and sometimes there will be disputes and fights. One of my cousins went to a party and was pestered by some hooligans. My cousin shouted loudly. It happened that my cousin was beside him. He rushed in to pull his sister, but his arm was cut by a rogue youth. We often fight when we are in a hurry.
Why are there so few fights now? Now young people in rural areas have gone to work in cities. All the people left behind in the village are old people and children in their sixties and seventies. In addition, the public security organs pay more attention to fighting in rural areas and crack down severely, which is naturally less than before.
Now the social atmosphere is much better than in the past, and there are contradictions among farmers. First of all, I thought of mediation with village cadres, unlike in the past.
The struggle between rural farmers is decreasing year by year.
In the past, there were many fights in the countryside. When I was a child, I saw several fighters in the market. I have never heard of such a thing in recent years. It should be really less! Of course, the reason is quite simple.
1, the overall quality of people is improved. In the past, more than half of the people in rural areas were illiterate. Some of them went to primary school for several years, while others didn't even go to primary school for several years and didn't know a few words. I don't know any laws, and I don't know that fighting is illegal, so I sometimes get emotional when I do things. And some people are still the same after being educated several times. Now the cultural level of rural people has improved a lot. Now many people over the age of 50 and 60 have graduated from junior high school and know the law, so they know how to restrain their illegal behavior. Ask the organization for help if you have any questions.
2. The rural population is small. When I was in primary school, I remember that the rural population was much larger than the urban population. In the past two years, with the continuous development of cities and towns, coupled with the fact that farmers have some money, they all want to buy a house in the city for a better environment. As a result, fewer and fewer people live in the countryside now. Most of them are women, children and the elderly. In the past, the vast majority of people who worked hard in rural areas were young people, but now young people in rural areas have gone to work or work in cities. If there are fewer people, there will naturally be fewer people fighting.
3. the law is more perfect. Although fighting was considered illegal in the past, at that time, rural people had a weak legal awareness and no one called the police. Moreover, the efficiency of township police stations was relatively low at that time. Now basically a phone call, people will arrive in more than ten minutes, with high work efficiency and greater enforcement. Coupled with the improvement of various laws, everyone consciously abides by the law.
The disappearance of fighting in rural areas actually shows that our living conditions are getting better step by step!
Fighting in the countryside is estimated to be rare now. Many villages can't find a young man except the old, the weak and the sick. Anyone at home is full and full. Nowadays, it is popular for young people to go to the coast, and no one wants to stay in the countryside because the village has no money to spend.
When I was young, many people in the village didn't go out to work, especially in the busy farming season. Two villages were killed or even lost their lives for a little farmland water. The father of one of my primary school classmates was killed by a shotgun in the next village. The last one was sentenced to more than ten years, and an old man was just released the year before last.
Now there are fewer disputes over rural interests, and there is no longer a big fight for a little thing like before.
At present, the imagination of fighting in rural areas basically occurs in the juvenile stage, especially in some junior and senior high school students. Fighting is common. What causes the phenomenon of fighting among rural minors to increase?
Nowadays, many parents leave home to work when their children are very young, which leads to children being deprived of their parents' education for a long time. Children who grew up with grandparents are basically "young ladies and children", who are self-centered outside and start work without saying a word, which is reflected in many young people now.
Generally speaking, the phenomenon of fighting in rural areas has decreased, but fighting began to rise again when I was a minor, which has to make family education, school education and social education worth pondering.
Now all rural people go out to work and everyone wants to make money. Who fights for no reason? I have been there before. In the early 1990s, before our factory was laid off, most of the older children were unemployed at home, making trouble in groups and fighting in groups. Seriously, at that time, everyone took knives to the ballroom. Social security is not good. But now children have very few long knives, all of which are daggers and triangular scrapers. At that time, there were really fights in the streets every day. I feel honored to be in the police station! Now don't say that there is no fighting in the countryside, nor in the city. A relative of mine was transferred to the township police station as the director, saying that he would not fight or gamble now and could not be fined. Too boring
Because people used to have many brothers. There are three people in that family, and the economy can't keep up. You can't go out to work and live on a few acres of land, and then you should go out to work. The main reason is the tight family planning. Up to now, 90-year-olds have grown up, and each family has at most two children. Education also keeps up with who will let their children do illegal things.
In the future, every child will go to college. This is why boys don't study hard in the future, and it is even harder for girls to find wives when they go to college.
None of them hit the point, mainly because the cost of playing now is too high. For example, when two people quarrel now, they will say, "Fight, burn more money." . There is a bad woman next door who scolds her neighbors all day for trivial things. In the past, men in the same village (mostly men of the same family) were beaten up. The year before last, they began to scold for a few days because of the homestead problem. When men work in the fields, she also scolds them behind their backs. The man was scolded urgently, so he turned around and kicked her, and she fell asleep (even touching porcelain). The daughter-in-law called the police and asked for an ambulance for a month. The man who kicked the bitch was detained for seven days, and was also taken away with 5 thousand yuan, and completely admitted it. The wicked woman is still arrogant, and the villagers joked that she has become the wife of B- 1 1! Dare not provoke.