"Happy education", a bowl of chicken soup, deceived parents, but what other disadvantages will it cause to children? Therefore, we will see that primary and secondary schools are very relaxed, and there is no self-study in the morning and evening, and the school has long since disappeared; The next math teaching will be cancelled, and English will not be tested in the college entrance examination; Children should always praise and blame, don't embarrass them. Children just need to study happily, but can this kind of happy education really make children learn well? It is helpful for children's learning and training in a relaxed and happy environment, but happy growth does not mean indulging children's play, otherwise it will lead to the lesser of two evils.

1, children learn too much.

Without pressure, there is no motivation, which will be true knowledge for most students. If there is really no management by teachers and parents, it is difficult for children to have a correct attitude towards learning. In the long run, children can only study too much. "A great teacher makes a great apprentice" is very correct. When the teacher is strict with his students, he doesn't mean to find fault. On the contrary, he wants students to correct their bad habits in their studies and encourages you to study harder. Is the premise of learning. The essence of happiness education is to let children find happiness in their studies and then enjoy it. Moderate burden reduction and efficiency improvement are beneficial to arouse students' learning enthusiasm, but not just to let children play in their studies. Parents must make it clear.

2. The child's temper is too arrogant.

In the past, once a student made a mistake, a lighter punishment was also a reprimand, unlike today's children who dare not fight or scold, asking him to maintain his self-esteem. We naturally don't advocate punishing and blaming children here, but there are some problems. Just a few naive words, the child basically went in one ear and out the other, and there was not even a ripple in his heart. Or the current education method is too arrogant to spoil the children, fearing that the statement will cause any harm to the children's psychological state. But in fact, children are far less sensitive than everyone thinks. And even if you don't have a good education when your children are young, social development can help you teach.