Therefore, an important aspect of improving education level is to educate children to be different in the face of setbacks, that is, different children will have different situations.
If your children are cheerful, in this case, you can properly carry out frustration education and prepare them for the cold real world in a gentle way. Of course, this needs to be done slowly. Don't discourage children at once, and then use words euphemistically. In this way, children will be more and more brave, constantly challenge themselves, and will be more suitable for society when they grow up.
However, if the child usually speaks loudly and his personality is not so sunny, at this time, you can choose the way of playing chess and give way to the child appropriately during the game. At the beginning, let the children win, let them improve their self-confidence, and then gradually increase the difficulty, but let the children win. Education is a game of chess, which is not based on one city and one pool, so this is just a way for you, so don't care too much.