Where there are children, there is education, but many small things in life can expose big problems in the way of education.

Have you ever heard a similar saying: don't step on the lawn, grandpa will hit you later! Don't throw rubbish on the floor, grandma who cleans will come and beat you! Don't rummage through other people's things, or your aunt will scold you! You can't hit your child, or you'll be beaten if you hit your aunt again. ...

All these words come from what we see in life. Some children's grandparents and even parents educate their children in this way. Many times, the "aunt" in the above sentence is myself! At this time, I just want to say: "Aunt is very busy and has no time to help your parents discipline you!" " "

I don't approve of this practice of putting education in the hands of others. I prefer to help children establish a correct view of right and wrong than to scare them with the help of others' beating and cursing.

Let him know that you are not allowed to do this, because it is wrong and impolite. It is only a possible result to annoy others, but I prefer to let my children know where they are wrong.

I will tell my children like this: flowers and plants will hurt, you can't step on them; Garbage should be put in the trash can, and cleaning grandma is very hard; It is impolite not to touch your own things; It's wrong to hit people. Imagine what you would do if other children hit you.

Although I can't say that my way is absolutely correct, at least my baby has strong empathy and is more willing to communicate with me!

Look at those scared children. Grandpa gardening didn't hit him or even show up; The cleaning grandmother didn't hit him, but silently picked up the garbage; Aunt didn't scold him, but left with something; Aunt didn't hit him either, just told the children to learn to protect themselves. ...

So these "disciplines" have become stories of "wolves coming", and children will never understand where they are wrong, or even feel that they are wrong …

Children are far more sensible than adults think. Their thoughts are actually very rich, and their understanding ability is much stronger than we thought! Positive discipline is far better than this kind of artificial hand.