1. Corporal punishment
Corporal punishment may include corporal punishment, such as hitting children, slapping, pulling, etc. The fundamental problem of this method is that it will cause physical and emotional harm to children. Children may feel scared, humiliated and helpless, which will affect their self-esteem and mental health. In addition, research shows that corporal punishment may lead children to rely more on their parents instead of cultivating their self-control ability.
2. Ignore children's needs
Ignoring children's needs may include ignoring children's emotional needs and material needs, such as ignoring children's desire for attention, caress or food requests. This may bring emotional loss and psychological trouble to children, because children need to feel that they are loved and cared for. If they don't feel this kind of emotional support, they may become emotionally isolated. In addition, if children's material needs are neglected, such as not meeting their basic needs such as sleep and diet, their health and development may be affected.
3. Overprotection
Over-protection may refer to over-protection and control of children, so that children cannot learn and grow in a safe environment. Although it is important to protect children, excessive protection may lead to children's lack of independence and self-confidence. When children can't face challenges and failures, they may become helpless and unconfident. At the same time, excessive protection may make children unable to understand the true face of the world, thus hindering their ability to adapt to the environment.
4. Control and compulsory education
Control and imperative education may mean focusing only on children's obedience and obedience, but not on children's thinking and creativity. This way may hinder children's self-development and learning. If parents just let their children act according to their own wishes instead of respecting their personality and interests, then their children may become negative and have no motivation to try new things. Moreover, controlling and compulsory education may cause stress and anxiety to children, because they may feel that they are not qualified for the tasks required by their parents.
Criticism and accusation
Criticism and blame may mean focusing only on children's mistakes and failures, not their strengths and achievements. This way may make children feel inferior and unacceptable, and affect their self-esteem and self-confidence. If children are always blamed and criticized, they may have doubts and uncertainties about their abilities, which will affect their learning and development.
6. No clear rules and boundaries have been established.
Without clear rules and boundaries, children may feel confused and helpless. Children need clear rules and boundaries to help them build self-control and sense of responsibility. Without rules and boundaries, children may become willful and uncontrollable, thus affecting their social and learning abilities. At the same time, the lack of boundaries may also lead children to be in a dangerous and unsafe situation.
Parental education has an important influence on children's growth and development. The educational methods listed above will not only have a negative impact on children, but also hinder their healthy growth and all-round development. On the contrary, parents should pay attention to their children's needs, establish positive relationships, encourage their children to explore the world, learn new things and help them become confident, independent and active adults.