Editor Xin's mother

Adolescence is a stage that everyone will go through when they grow up. Children in this period are rebellious and active, but it is also the golden age for children to learn. Whether children can be more promising in the future depends on the education of parents in this period. Children will become more sensible under better guidance, but rebellious psychology is also one of the headaches for parents.

Many parents have also come up with various coping methods. Recently, a parent came up with a way to make people laugh and cry. In the face of this method, all threats and inducements seem so "pale and powerless".

Dad took his son to grandpa's grave and was punished. When he turned around, his son disappeared.

Some time ago, a father got angry on the Internet. In order to punish his son's rebellion and disobedience, he even took his son to grandpa's grave in the middle of the night to be punished, hoping that this would let the children know their mistakes. Unexpectedly, the father originally wanted to scare his son, but he didn't let his son scare himself.

It is reported that before and after Bao Da took his children to grandpa's grave, three of his own people urgently needed to find a place to solve. However, when he came back, the child kneeling on the ground was gone! This scared the baby dad.

In the cold winter of December, there are no wild animals in this deep mountain forest. Bao Da hurriedly looked around, but his son had not been seen for a long time. Dad Bao had no choice but to call the police.

Not long after, the police found that the child was walking on the road a few kilometers away through monitoring and investigation along the road, so they quickly picked up the child by the roadside. After the child was found, the police also strongly criticized Bao's behavior. This kind of education is undoubtedly very inappropriate. What do you do in the grave in the dead of winter? This will undoubtedly bring a serious psychological shadow to the child, and Bao Dad knows that he is nodding.

After the incident was exposed on the Internet, it triggered a hot discussion among netizens and commented one after another:

"Adults are afraid in the cemetery at night, let alone children! This is what I am thinking! "

"What a big heart! Scare children like this in the middle of the night! "

"My father dares to do this, but some people go too far!"

We can understand the rebellious psychology of adolescent children, but parents should also adopt appropriate educational methods to educate their children. The father's education method is undoubtedly thoughtless. How parents treat their children's rebellious period is very important for their future development.

When children are in adolescence, they are eager to be respected and treated like adults. Parents may wish to give their children some right to make their own choices.

Let children know that they are respected, their sense of accomplishment is satisfied, and they are more willing to communicate with their parents. Parents can also find their children's problems through communication and help them correct them.

Adolescent children are full of energy and have nowhere to vent. Parents may wish to take their children out for a walk during the holidays and feel the beauty of nature.

It is also good for children to participate in social activities and increase social experience. At the same time, doing some outdoor sports with children is more conducive to children's relaxation.

Facing rebellious children, communication is the best way to solve the problem. Only through more communication can we understand children's inner thoughts, avoid disagreement with children, affect parent-child relationship, and prevent some problems that may occur during the rebellious period.

The three rebellious periods in a child's life require parents to treat them with peace of mind, trust each other, and walk through this difficult period hand in hand in order to usher in a better future.

When children are rebellious, we should understand the motives behind them, listen to their true voices and treat them as books, not as paper.