Human nature is different from good and evil. Although Saint Amethyst has a proverb that "at the beginning of life, human nature is good", this is not always the case. Xunzi believes that "human nature is evil, and its goodness is also false." No matter what its nature is, people usually learn to be polite through good education, otherwise they will not be able to integrate into society. Therefore, we can often see that a sinister person's appearance can be a graceful and gentle gentleman, and his elegant appearance masks his evil essence.
/kloc-children aged 0/3 should have understood this truth very well. Not only do you instill the idea of respecting teachers and observing discipline in school, but you should also learn to respect your elders and general social etiquette with adults at home. But at least now, your nephew has been trained to be a child who only cares about himself, ignores decency, has no one else in his heart and is obviously uneducated. He just escaped from a cave or Zhoukoudian. His family are all around him like holding the stars of the moon, and everything he does is recognized by his parents, which is very unfavorable to his later life and his life after leaving home and entering the society.
In fact, he may have realized that outside, such as at school, he has no position at home, and it is impossible for everyone to spoil him like his family, unless he is from school.
"Little Overlord" or "Devil on Earth" in the community. This will make him form a double-faced and twisted personality: a tiger at home and a mouse when he goes out. Who am I afraid of at home? Who am I afraid of leaving home?
When he lives independently in the future, it is impossible for him to continue to maintain his present position at home in society. Even Hitler was frustrated when he was young, not to mention that he might not be as talented as Hitler. Therefore, if he is smart enough, he can adjust himself after entering the society to make up for the missing courses in family education. If he can't do this, he will always be unhappy, depressed, afraid of society and unwilling to leave home, because if he leaves home, he will not have such a bossy position.
Therefore, I want to emphasize again that this kind of education is really bad for children! This kind of "love" is really hurting children. Parents who educate their children in this way are incompetent parents and uneducated parents.