1, injury is injury, never temper.

Many old people always abuse and humiliate their children. If someone stops it, it is said that education has honed children. But we must know that corporal punishment is corporal punishment, and humiliation is humiliation. No one can use the reason of tempering to attack a child's self-confidence in this ugly way. If it is because the child made a mistake, it is good to criticize it appropriately.

It is unfilial to oppress others with filial piety.

In traditional culture, filial piety has always been regarded as the most admirable etiquette. Many old people have worked hard all their lives, just waiting for their children and grandchildren to be old and full of filial piety. However, filial piety, as a kind of etiquette, needs the consciousness of future generations, rather than becoming an imperial edict in the hands of the elderly. I will arbitrarily order my children and grandchildren to buy them this and that on the grounds of filial piety, so that they can serve and make their faces shine.

3, relying on the old to sell the old, wasting public resources.

Most elderly people will naturally be treated leniently because they are older and have sufficient social experience. In terms of social public resources, these old people will also be pardoned. So in the long run, I have developed bad habits. It is wrong not to put them first in everything. Even in order to grab these public resources with young people, they do not hesitate to rely on the old and sell the old, and have a dispute with them in public.

Old people have no virtue, which affects three generations. If unscrupulous old people are allowed to destroy their families, only their children and grandchildren will be hurt in the end. Some people wonder why in today's society, "unprincipled and influenced" old people appear frequently. They can make waves in the family, but their children can't. Perhaps because they have experienced a lot, they can grasp the child's psychology in some way, so that the child can let go and dare not resist, in order to achieve their own selfish psychological purpose.